In life, we always face any options. If you’re a grown up, its consequences are getting harder for each. And in one point, you may getting tired thinking about what to decide.
So what makes it become such a serious problem? It’s because we expect the best one, yet matched with our ego.
Sometimes, there’s nothing as simple as that. What we really want might not the best one, and vice versa. Don’t you think that somehow we think so hard considering the good and bad side of these options? While we surely not knowing what would happen in future. But we are so worry wondering the consequences if we choose the wrong one. Thinking that everyone will blame us by deciding recklessly. No one want any regret.
But, is it the main problem? The thing is not always about “what to decide”, but “how to deal with our decision”. The hardest part is how we get through after we made one decision, because we will never know what might happen later. Sometimes we blame ourselves by choosing the wrong one, when it soon goes bad. Have we ever think, that it turned bad because we couldn’t handle the problems after we made any decision? Even the best-looking option might turn bad if we couldn’t deal with the following issues.
So the good or bad end is obviously depend to the way we bring it, right after we made any decision. No matter what option that we choose.
these writing are based on my own opinion, not refer to any theory
