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I am nonbinary and have been learning German for awhile now and I am looking to move to german in the next two years. As someone who is nonbinary what has your experience in Germany been? I have heard mixed things about how accepting they are of nonbinary folks.
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hi! sorry about this (very) late reply as i’ve been off tumblr for a while, but i’d be happy to tell you my experience!
Overall, I’ve had no issues. I am more masculine/neutral presenting, and only people close to me (and my online profiles) actually know I identify as nonbinary. When I started working in Germany, I wasn’t very comfortable sharing my identity as I’ve heard of the mixed feelings for nonbinary people. I was lucky my job had a large number of queer employees, and I could hear how they talked about gender. Many seemed perfectly fine with trans folks, but I’m not sure how many even knew of non-binary as a term. I didn’t share I was non-binary until I was talking about it with a coworker from the US. That’s when I was told there was some talk among them wondering if I was trans, but no one asked me about it.
I think it will depend on what city you’re in & who you interact with. I’ve never had a stranger ask me or give me trouble, as people tend to mind their business and mostly just stare (but Germans stare at everyone, no matter what, you get used to it). If you have any medical needs or take hormones, there are doctors you can go to, it’s just a matter of finding the right one - likely in bigger cities.