#bumble dating

Why is it that when I find a cute guy on a dating app and start to actually like him, he ghosts me??? Like I know we don’t owe people every second of our time and we already established that we were both bad at responding but 4 days??????? While still posting and viewing all of my Instagram stories?????? While saying he wanted to hop on a game with me at some point and calling me cutie???????? WTF?!?

I know nobody's gonna see this, but I love women. I'm on the dating apps (hellsites, unaffectionate), and I see so many women living happy lives. They take fun pictures with other women (and, on occasion, men, but this is dating app pictures we're talking about). They dress up and look good. They have pets and hobbies and dreams and hopes and everything. They're funny and clever and sweet and kind. I just found myself smiling whilst I swiped through all of them. Some yes, some no; didn't matter, I smiled at all of them. I just love women. And yes, that includes trans women. Heck, it includes NB people who chose to present as femme on the app (I didn't see any masc or ambiguous NB folx, sadly), even tho I know they aren't technically women. Just lots of love for everyone that I saw and whose lives briefly touched mine, if only digitally, and I wanted to share that love and let other women and female-presenting folx know that I have that love for them too.