So most of you that come to my page know that I have a very narcissistic, asshole of a step-dad. For those of you who don't, yes, he is, and no, I feel no remorse in saying it anymore. He has literally sucked the happiness out of my life. Not only is he narcissistic, his side of the family has always came before mine and my mother's. If ever I wasn't feeling well and there happened to be a family function that day, he would throw a tantrum like a man-child telling me i didn't want to be part of the family and storm out of the house and drive off to said family function, wheels squealing as he pulled out of the driveway. My mom would have to drive in a separate car. Then when he got home he would make passive-aggressive comments that people had asked about me and he told them I couldn't come cause I was sick. He's also gotten into fights with me and my mom over me "disrespecting" him when I rarely talk to him cause I'm always in my room (he always finds a reason to yell at me if I come out so I don't) which have led to him threatening to leave, and once telling my mom to choose between him or me. That is simple context for those who don't know him. His most recent work of art on being a controlling narcissist is thus. I procured myself a battery powered wax warmer, and took my mom up to the store and we both debated over a number of scents that were pleasing and I bought them with my own money. Bringing them home, I cycled through every single one of them over a period of a week, making sure to let the scent dissipate before I started melting the next one. My step-dad was having sinus problems before I brought the wax home and melted it, and was perfectly fine *while* I had it melting. Now, he's also one of those who don't believe in going to the doctor, so he'll suffer through a sickness unless it's killing him. So once I've settled on my favorite scent, my mom calls me into her room and tells me my step-dad thinks my wax is causing his sinuses to go nuts....I wanted to storm out and yell at him. But, I'm going to be patient. I've turned off my melter for the rest of the day, will be turning it back on once he falls asleep, turning it on while I'm still awake, and then turning it back off when I fall asleep. In the morning, I'll be leaving it off. I've informed my mother of this and she thinks it's a good idea. If my step-dad says he feels better in the morning, my mom and I will be confronting him about blaming me for him feeling bad. Which he has a bad habit of making me the scapegoat in the house in the first place. So it will be a nice win. Sorry for complaining and everything, but this got under my skin and revenge was the only thing I could think of this time...I'm just done being the victim and letting him walk all over me time and time again.
