People love to call me a transphobe/transmisogynist when I say "I don't like being confused as a trans woman" and then I gotta spell it out to them "I don't like being confused as ANY binary gender, but I'm ALWAYS confused as a trans woman" and somehow thats still transphobic...
BRO, I'M A TRANS PERSON, I HATE IT JUST AS MUCH WHEN I GET CONFUSED AS A CIS WOMAN, BUT FOR SOME REASON PEOPLE ALWAYS THINK IM A TRANS WOMAN???
Like fr, people JUMP when I say I'm trans and hide their kids, specifically because they think I'm a trans woman... My worst experience was being throttled in a bathroom coz they specifically thought I was a "boy" trans [they clearly meant trans woman with their tone and how they treated me]. My heart goes out to all trans women who also have to deal with this, but like... constantly.
[also thats NOT why I don't like being confused as a trans woman, its just an effect of being confused as one all the time]
Also, I'm transMASC, but I hate the idea of being seen as a binary trans MAN. Like I'm a man- but not in that way,,, yknow, in a butch way!
My pronouns are they/he/ey + bite/bitez, frog/frogs neo pronouns if you gotta refer to me...
