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and especially thinking about that one time she asked me something akin to that while her cock was in my mouth and I made some kind of “mmhmm” noise

and she told me “don’t talk with your mouth full”

GUESS WHAT ✨

ur girl is… ✨

✨💖ENGAGED💖✨

We are now DOUBLE engaged 💖

I proposed to her at Pride two weeks ago 💍💖 her ring is a green sapphire with moissanite and white gold 💚 (mine is pink moissanite, clear moissanite, and platinum 💕)

I’ve never loved someone more and I’ve never been loved so deeply or so perfectly 💖

we are getting married in May 2026, the same day my grandparents were married in May 1965 💖

I love you like no other 💖💖💖

we are ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT going to co-opt “transfemme”.

we have plenty of labels. demigirl, demiwoman, demifem(me), nonbinary, trans, nbi, etc—we are not going to steal a word used by a group that we are NOT PART OF!

it’s not complicated. no one is policing you. labels have flexibility, AND labels exist for a reason with the meanings that they have. not every label is going to apply to you personally and that’s actually okay and fine. you will carry on, I believe in you.

I’m not going to rant a bunch here bc plenty of trans women have spoken on this and they are the ones you really need to be listening to.

but we are not doing this. we just aren’t.

Standing with my trans girls forever, always, eternally 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

me @ all my transfem followers

like literally how am I expected to just go about my business when she talks and I think of overripe stone fruits blistering in the summer heat, of hot baths and warm blankets, of a crackling bonfire and the smell of smoke clinging to my hair

how can I possibly be expected to act normal when she sounds like the air before a storm, like the way sunlight feels on my skin, like milk and honey, thick and sweet and holy

I started talking to a girl on Lex a couple weeks ago and we hung out a couple times at the beginning of the month

I was not sure how I felt about the premise of being in a committed relationship bc I didn’t feel like I was over my exes “enough”

and we had kinda settled on the idea of an intimate friendship

but I had a revelation over the last week or so—

life is short and only temporary, I can’t heal by refusing to let myself be cared for, and love is the only thing in the whole world that truly matters—

and I couldn’t justify letting this chance slip away

so on Friday night I asked her to be my girlfriend, and she said yes 🥹