#bovver

Swill

What is he not into. He's down for anything. You name it, he wants it. The man is so enthusiastic about sex. Swill can be very rough and LOUD (we've seen him fight) and is very vocal about everything that's happening. He has a box full of toys and loves a good flogging. And when he asks you to hit him in the face, do it and do it hard. He wants bruises he can make the guys question why he's beat up when they haven't had a scrap in weeks.

Biggest turn-on: picking out a safe word and him having to actually use it

Biggest turn-off: someone who can't relax and get into it as much as he is. They have to be confident and be open for anything.

Bovver

Bov is secretly into older women. He likes to be subbed and maybe even get in on a little dominatrix action. This man needs to be tied up and gagged, it's the only way to keep his big gob shut. He's been known to beg until he gets his way, and while you might think he'd feel pathetic in doing so, he's completely hard and a whimpering mess. He wants to be told he's a good boy over and over again.

Biggest turn-on: a married woman old enough to be his mother who will put him in his place.

Biggest turn-off: someone who won't take control or is too submissive.

And finally, my husband,

Pete

He is such a lover. As much as he loves to fuck you senseless and have loud, wild sex, he equally loves making slow, passionate love to you. Either way, his heart is fully in it, telling you he loves you through a laugh as he's pounding you into the mattress or whispering it in your ear as he's thrusting slowly into you during missionary. He loves spontaneity, especially when it's initiated by you, and can't ever get enough, having to have you more than once in a day. Pete loves to focus on his partner, making sure you come over and over, but gets so excited when you return the favour and make his pleasure your priority.

Biggest turn-on: you asking to try something new, the way you're a bit shy to make your request but he can already tell how turned on you are and how much you've thought about it.

Biggest turn-off: not having confidence in yourself or your body, putting yourself down.