I don't like strangers telling me what to wear when I get to meet them.
There's this someone I matched in a dating app. As we chatted along, had set a date/time for a meetup..then he goes like,
Him: Would you wear a dress?
Me: Nah, I ride on motorcycle. Why?
Him: Oh..okay. Nothing. Just joking. It's just i read in you profile you're "shirt/pants kinda girl"
So okay, move on. Talk about motorcycles a bit and then..
Him: You wear dress tomorrow, don't ride your motorcycle and just commute.
Me: *high blood instantly* To be honest one of the things I don't like is for someone who meddles with the way I dress and how I act.
End.
Maybe I was overeacting but it's about me we're talking about. That shirt/pants thing is my identity somehow. That where I'm comfortable. And as he telling me to wear dress is kinda off. I want to be real with this "Meeting the first time thing" and if strangers can't handle it, then no thank you.
Still stranger but I can already see what kind of person are you somehow.
