We are in a similar situation. I'm 26 years old, never been in a relationship (not even close to being in one), I'm pretty sure no one has been attracted to me, but the thing is I haven't been attracted to someone either. I have only been attracted to one guy, and it freaked me out because it was a brand-new feeling.
I have always felt as if there's something wrong with me because I want to be in a relationship and I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, but either I haven't met anyone or I don't have it in me. What I wanted to say is I feel you đ
Thank you for sharing this. I sometimes feel so alone and ashamed with these feelings. I wouldnât say any of my dating experiences count as a âproper relationshipâ. I forced myself to date someone for 6 months before I broke it off because the longer I forced myself to stay with them the more I was repelled by that person. Not because there was anything wrong with them! I guess itâs just what happens when you try to force attraction/feelings.Â
So it sounds like weâre both somewhere in the ace spectrum đ As in we only experience attraction once in a blue moon.Â
Iâm trying online dating. Which I donât know if it increases my chances of meeting someone or makes it worse.Â
Thank you for sharing. It definitely makes me feel less alone <3
