#blogsaboutlife

Boy's are like stray cats in my opinion, they come and go when they please. They make you happy for a day or two and then pick up and wander to somewhere new (no offense to the stray cats that is).

There are many different types of men out there. If you remember Regina George telling us about all the different cliques there are in high school, there are many more groups alone of just men.. Sooo we have the new stylish E-boys, the all around just favourite F**k boy and then the athletes and then the sweet pure ones who actual will stick with you, unless you end that one yourself.

An E-boy is just a 2019 version of a scene kid back from the 2000's. A f**k boy is an "asshole boy who is strictly looking for only sexual relationships". The sweet pure one's are just heaven sent, they listen, give you everything (and sometimes more) they make sure its you and only you.. But sometimes they have their bad sides and it ends up not being right.

When dealing with boy's it is important to know if you are just wasting your time trying to make them act correctly.. My best advice and i'm sure every girls advice (that we all probably ignore) is that MEN WILL ONLY ACT RIGHT IF THEY WANT TO. We all need to remember that they are human as well and they are just trying to figure out life.. BUTTTT if you are straight up with what you want and tell the man you're talking to that, they will often tell you what they want... OORRRR if they are a huge f**k boy, they will just tell you what you want hear, typical little boy games. You just have to figure out what their true intentions are, it will be hard but you can easily see it through their actions.. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. As the girls Sophia and Alex ( from the Call Her Daddy podcast ) stated, Men who truly like you, will not play games with you, Only the guys who want one thing will finesse their way to get that and make you believe that they want you when they truly don't.

To end my little rant about the male species i guess not all of them are horrible.. I have met some pretty great guys in my life and i can say that even though we ended on rocky terms they are still in my life to this day as friends, i just blame the past on us being too young to act grown and the fact that they were also going through some things in their personal lives. Is it right for a man to treat you like shit because of that though? Hell no. You will learn slowly but surely to stand up to men because for the most part they are all talk, they will say some hurtful things as you try to tell them to F off, but you just have to remember that their ego is bruised and they don't like that..but you are a bad ass who doesnt care

I recently just got my first big girl job!! It has been restaurants and serving since i have been 16.. But now being 19 i am working at a place where i have a chance to grow with the company. Yes i still deal with customer service , the hotel industry is no joke.

The story of how i got this job is funny yet a little embarrassing! I was sitting at home and I got a call from a local number and I answered it very confused because it was 6 pm or almost 7 pm at the time I didn't know why anyone would be calling me that late, but as soon as I heard my now manager say that he is the manager of the company I work at I instantly got excited and very pleased. We set up and an interview, yes I was very nervous, I even had to ask my boyfriend's mom at the time what I should wear and what to ask and everything in between (God bless her for being so patient and caring with me). I was hired after the interview and came in the next day to start! Excited and nervous I went in not knowing what to expect, since I have never worked in the Hotel industry before.. But my managers and my trainer were very patient and helped me, I probably only had actually 3 whole days of training, it was super easy to pick up.. But after maybe 2 or 3 days of working there I confessed to my manager that I didn't even know that I applied for the job.... I was just doing the easy apply's on the job search site Indeed and found the hotel and took a shot in the dark!!!

Do I have my moments where I want to request a week off of work and lay in bed and cuddle my adorable cat Adam? Yes all the time. But I am part of the adult world now where I need to be reliable and the most important part is saving money, which is honestly very hard especially since it is now fall and all the cute boots and sweaters are coming out!!!

Having a good attitude about going to work effects EVERYTHING!! You can walk in mad and for the rest of that day you will make yourself have a bad day and the customers will even pick up on it and make your day 10x worse.. But if you walk in with a smile on your face knowing the day will go by fast, you will have a good day and even an angry customer will not get in the way because you already made up your mind about how YOUR day will go!!