Jul 23
I don't like kaisagi and I am not interested in defending the ship but if I see someone say their age gap is problematic I automatically assume that person is either being performative, is insane, or is a child in primary school who has no business talking about what a healthy relationship dynamic is.
Also if you at any point find yourself disliking a problematic ship, regardless of what type of relationship it is, stay away from the tag and the spaces of the shippers. I promise you that you won't change their minds and your big opinions on fictional ships will make absolutely zero impact on real life abuse and its victims. All you'll do is putting yourself in online spaces where you know you'll feel disturbed and upset.
