#blackdeviouserose

you guys may be in this situation now and i know it sucks and i can’t tell you to gtfo of it bc i know it’s hard and probably impossible. i couldn’t just stop either when i saw this girl every single day in hs, but i promise you there will come a time when it will be easier for you to just stop everything with them. you'll no longer be forced to see them every single day in class, you will get new friends who will be more supportive of you, and you will learn that you can move on from them just as they can move on from you.

i guess all i can say for now is to keep yourself at arm’s length from them. listen to your feelings first and foremost. say no if you don’t want to do something. there were times when i finally had the courage to say “no sorry i don’t feel like it” and then was met with, but it’s a friday? i don’t like to have fun or something? am i some sort of loser? what’s wrong with me? and it will hurt, but you have to stand your ground. they’ll make excuses saying they were just joking around and shouldn’t be taken seriously