Jen! Ive been bi for so long but never dated a woman and kept getting into relationships with men because its... easier. But i got dumped awhile ago and have been working hard on talking to girls and embracing my love for them and ive found the sweetest girl. Shes absolutely stunning and she came over to my house while i was sick and brought medicine and cough drops and flowers. My heart is so full and i cant stop smiling and i cry thinking about how wonderful she is. :'^)
You have been bi your whole life.. you just needed your brain and heart to overcome all the junk our culture tosses at us. I am so happy for you that you know who are you and are embracing such an important part of yourself. (Happy Bisexual Awareness Week!)
This was a wonderful thing to read. I know I am 100 percent biased.. I willingly admit it.. but something about women..the connections we can form, the chemistry our bodies can create together, it is something undefineable. Love between women is a grand wonder of our existence.
Also.. she sounds just like a nice and sweet person. That crosses sexes and genders, but finding thoughtfulness and kindness in a woman with whom you share an attraction is something to celebrate. Short term. long term, love and enjoy the times you have together. AND let her know your feelings. Don’t make her guess.
I am proud of you for being you and for stepping out of your comfort zone and talking to women. Your efforts are giving you a wonderful reward.
