I'd like to say that if i dont talk to you a lot it's not because i dont like you or whatever. Im just shitty at communication. The reason im so shitty is because i may be
sick
having a stressful day
having some strange emotional issues
someone else is always talking to me before you
Usually the emotional issues i have are that you're emotions are strong (which isn't a bad thing ), due to the fact im empathic this fucks me up sometimes. Another problem is if you sound angry i will not talk. At all. It's not your fault i've just been conditioned to be seen not heard. And this state of mind acts up when im under stress. Also im just really shitty about being in group calls on skype or talking in groups usually.
All in all if i dont talk to you it's not because i dont want to or i dont like you. It's because im dumb sometimes and dont know how to function around others. How so solve this problem is kind of simple. You just need to let me call you on my own or ask before you call (90% i'll say yeah). Being suddenly isn't always a bad thing, but if it happens in a moment i dont want to talk i'll still answer because i'll feel bad if i say no.
I personally also need to work on my own communication problems, but it's important that you guys know that im not trying to be rude or avoid you.
EDIT:
A thing i forgot to mention is that i also have a really big problem when people dont respond to what i say. So if im talking and you dont say anything (even an 'mmhmm' or 'yeah') I feel like im being ignored or im being obnoxious so i stop talking, so if you notice i stopped talking ask me a question about what i was saying (even if it's 'what did you say?') So i can know you're interested in the conversation or at least dont find me annoying
