Milton/Binghams: The Talk
Good Morning all! I just had my coffee and some breakfast before heading out the door to kickboxing, but I just thought that I would start this off. I know it wonât be long til I have to leave and I KNOW I am not going to finish it in time so there ya go. Now, for the first time after the revamp, I bring to you the Binghams.Â
It had been a whirlwind of wild and crazy since Mike had been a baby. Life just seemed to move so swiftly that, before Misha and May knew it, he was a child. With Maggie and Marc rearing Mike while worrying over the twins, Mia, and Max it all started to take a toll on her. Marc told her that she needed to learn to relax. As sweet as he was, giving her massages and all to help, it didnât help completely. It was a temporary fix for a big problem. She just couldnât help worrying and she couldnât help the fact that maybe it was time to just let go. What did that really mean for Maggie? Even Maggie didnât know, she just knew something had to give.Â
The twins, Maker bless their hearts, had been watching the heaviness. They even felt it from time to time and did what any normal teenage kids would do. They pitched in and helped out. One night they even had a meeting with their Aunt and Uncle.Â
âMay? What is it honey?â Mia said sweetly when the silence got deafening.Â
âIts Mom.......its this living arrangement. It was all great when Grandma and Grandpa were still around.......it was even great for a while when things seemed a bit broken after they left, or so I have been told many times.....â
âWait......broken?â Max chimed in.
âUncle Max, I think what May is saying is that after their passing, its when Mom and Dad needed you guys the most. Needed this family all under one roof...â Misha said. Max made an incomprehensible face. Like he couldnât believe what they were saying.Â
âWait.......wait Uncle Max......before you jump to conclusions.....â, May continued, âhe doesnât mean what it sounds like. We just feel as though without us around......you and Aunt Mia can do what you want to do.........it might make her feel better. Feel better and worry less than what it is now if we were to get our own placeâÂ
âBut.......but you two are just kids!â Mia said exasperatedly.Â
âWe are teenagers........teens that are on the verge of becoming adults anyway. We can grow things, make our way into the world, and still go to highschool. We thought a lot about this, Aunt Mia. We just think its timeâ Misha said.
âNo honey, your Mom would be heartbroken if you left. She would demand that you two be accompanied by her at least. At least until you were young adultsâ Mia said.Â
âThen what do you suggest that we do? I canât stand Mom like this.......its like she has the weight of the world on her shoulders and no matter what, its not being lifted. Dad is trying his hardest......knocking himself out in order to make her feel better......but it only works for a short time.â
âHave you two told anyone else this? Or better yet, told your Mom how you feel?â Max said concerned.Â
âWe tried talking to Dad. Telling him that we were concerned over Mom, but he just told us that she was just tiredâ May said.Â
âMaybe you ought to take that at face value then. Your Dad wouldnât lie to you twoâ Mia looked at them both. Then, things fell into silence once more. Mia looked into Maxâs eyes. They both thought the same thing........they both needed to find a different place to live. They exchanged knowing glances.Â
âWell, lets just think on things a bit more here. Let your Auntie and Uncle talk things over. IF we think its a good idea, we will TRY to talk to your Mom and Dadâ Max said.Â
âOkayâ the twins said together. They then disbanded. That night, Mia had awful dreams. Dreams of crying, loss, twins leaving the house, and Maggie just simply heartbroken. It even woke her in the middle of the night with tears in her eyes, Max heard, and came knocking.Â
âHey......can I come in?â
âI heard.....are you ok?â
âJust a bad dream is allâ
âIt was Maggie and the family, wasnât it?â
âI couldnât get over the twins wanting to leave either. I kept trying to find ways in which to make them stay. What finally quieted my mind is that they are coming into their own here. They are fighting for a chance to make their mark on the world. Why shouldnât we let them? Or at least try to help them break it to Maggie?âÂ
âIts because we are family Max! Family is supposed to stick togetherâ
âWhoâs to say that we wonât still stick together?â There was a silence for a minute and Mia couldnât think of what to say next, so Max continued, âJust because we arenât in the same house doesnât mean that we wonât stick together. We would be just as close......maybe thats what May and Misha were getting at. Seven people to take care of IS a lot and you know how Maggie is. She wonât stop trying to be the one to take care of everyone simply because we tell her to relinquish leadership to all of us and not just one person to shoulder the responsibilityâ
âYou really think its time Max, donât you?â Mia asked afraid of the answer.
âThey make sense and I am starting to feel that, even though they are just teens, they make an excellent point. As they say âout of the mouths of babesââ he chuckled. âLook, we donât have to decide this right now, just know that how I feel is that it was great for when Mom and Dad passed, we needed to be surrounded by family, however that time has passed. While its good to be with family, that doesnât necessarily mean that we all have to be under one roofâ.Â
Just then Mia yawned, her fears somewhat diminished, and they hugged goodnight. Miaâs dreams then, even if they werenât full of nightmares, still were in constant battles.Â
The next day they all awoke, Maggie as usual was downstairs making breakfast and coffee. The next to wake was Max and he made his way quietly. Mia and the kids were still asleep and he wanted it that way.Â
âGood morning Sisâ he said sweetly to Maggie as he got the coffee pot working.
âGood morning Max......howâd you sleep?â she yawned.
âNot too good to be honest......what about you?â he looked at her worried now.Â
âOh, the usual.......up late cause I had things on my mind. I need to find something to quiet my mind before I go to sleepâ she shrugged. She wished that she could have fetched a fib here and there. However, there was no fooling family.Â
Max sighed cause he knew this was the perfect time to bring things up. He didnât want to bring it up with the others around and it was something that he knew Maggie would like to get used to before she heard the others.
âWhat? What is it Max?â she asked watching the coffee pot for a minute before it started to fill with coffee.
âMaggie, lets sit down for a minute and talk. I really need to chat and for you to listenâ
âOkayâ Maggie said tentatively.
âThe twins came to me and Mia last night. They are worried because you seem to be extra worried over this family and life in general.......â
âYou would too if you had a house full of people to take care ofâ Maggie interjected, getting on the defense.
âMaggie, I didnât say it to get you riled up or defensive. Its an observation. One that I might add, I have had too. The twins have been feeling it and they told us that they are ready to be out on their ownâÂ
âAbsolutely notâ she said almost tearing up.
âExactly what I said, but they feel that if they are not here that they are taking away your burden a little. We know you are now the matriarch of this family and therefore feel a responsibility to us all. You wonât give in to someone else being the one in charge........the one that shoulders everything. We do love you for that, but take a look. Its got you wound up.â
âThey are just babies Max!â she said now exasperatedly. This was when Max moved to give her a hug and squeezed her hand.Â
âI know. We told them that you would demand to be there with them, but they seemed to feel that Mia and myself could reason with you. This stress you are under is not good for you and you know it. These kids you have raised are really smart and have good heads on their shoulders, which is why I AM advocating for them.âÂ
Maggie got teary eyed and quiet. She felt like screaming, crying, doing something that would change how all this was going down. She felt people were leaving her and she didnât want that to happen. When Maggie didnât speak, Max went on, âNo one is leaving you for good MaggieâÂ
âCause you are my sister and I know how you thinkâ he chuckled.Â
âYou donât know that they arenât going to leave me for good!â
âCome on Mags.......seriously? You are their MOTHER......they wouldnât leave and not come back. They love you!âÂ
âAnd what if something happens to them? A fire......burglary.....kidnappers......it could happen you know!â
âEven if it could, your kids know youâd be only a minute away.â
âYeah, I guess........that would be my main condition. That they would be close by so I could see them every dayâ she said nodding. Then, she had another frightening thought, âwhat about you and Mia?â
âThat.......that I want to talk to you while Mia is around if that is okâ he said cautiously. Maggieâs face fell, but she understood. Suddenly she wasnât so hungry for breakfast.Â
âI need to go and get Marc up.......his breakfast is going to get coldâ she sniffed.Â
âAlright.......I am sorry about everything Maggie........I know its hard. Its hard on me too. I couldnât fathom the twins leaving us or even wanting to for that matterâ he said and hugged her.Â
She left and he went about his day. He kept thinking about Maggie and wondering if she was going to be alright. He had to keep reassuring himself that she was. She had always been the resilient one.Â
Slowly but surely the crowd started to come in, go through the motions getting breakfast and going off to school or work, and then leaving the house to Mia, Max, Maggie, and Marc. Max and Mia were off in another room for a few minutes after all the kids left for school, while Marc and Maggie cleaned the house together.Â
âYou seem awfully quiet honâ
âIm sorry honey........its just Max is allâ
âWhy? What happened?â
âWe had a talk.......apparently the twins want to move out on their ownâÂ
âAbsolutely not! They are too youngâ
âExactly my reaction, however he told me that they think that if they go out on their own that it would somehow lessen the burden here at the house for meâ
âYou have been worried and tense a lot lately........â
âI know I have.....but I just canât help it. With rearing Mike, making sure the twins stay on the straight and narrow, keeping up with the daily chores around the house, and everything else......I feel somewhat stretched in all directionsâ
âYou donât have to do it all by yourselfâÂ
âMarc, have you even met me?â she made a jibe at herself that was neither funny nor lighthearted to elicit a chuckle from anyone. âMax made me see that they arenât kids anymore.......they are coming into their own! That maybe we ought to see what givesâÂ
âYou seem pretty set on it happening.......Iâm surprisedâ
âSurprised Im not crying my eyes out? Believe me, I really do want to. They are my babies! I just know that I canât react that way.......I am not even sure I am able to react that way with everything happeningâ
âIts not just the kids.......is it?â Marc asked. Her face fell and thats when he knew. âThatâs it.....we need to talk to Max and Mia now.......â he said moving around the house to look for them. âMax? Mia? Come out now pleaseâ he shouted out.Â
When they finally came out they all gathered at the dining room table, âWhat is it Marc?â Mia said.Â
âMaggie has been telling me that both of the twins want to move and so do you two........is that your intentions?âÂ
âWell........we were going to have a discussion about it, yes.......â Max said.
âDo you understand how that looks to my wife?âÂ
âHoney........please.......â
âNo, donât honey please me.......do you know how that looks?âÂ
âMarc, please listen to us before getting upset........â
âMy wifeâs heart is breaking and you donât want me upset?âÂ
âHoney! I can speak for myselfâ Maggie insisted. Thatâs when Marc paused to look at her as she started to speak.Â
âMax, after you came to me to tell me the kids wanted to be out on their own, I was really upset. I was even more upset when I knew you and Mia wanted out of the house too. Between the cleaning and other chores today, I have been thinking a lot. You are right.......for the time being, when Mom and Dad passed, it was right for us all to stay together. I guess I just got so used to the idea.â
âIts not that we donât want to live with you and Marcâ Mia said sweetly and hugged Maggie.Â
âI know......and in my heart of hearts I know Marc understands this tooâ she looked him in the eyes. For a half a second an exchange happened. The looks seemed to say âI doâ, âyes you doâ, and finally âfine.....okâ.Â
âYeah I guess so......but not the twinsâ
âWe simply want to advocate for them is all. They deserve the best life we can give them. Filled with happy memories, they deserve the right to be worried over their Mamma, and they deserve the right to their own opinionsâ Max said.Â
âFine. Alright. So does this mean that you two are packing bags?âÂ
âNot yet......in a couple days time possibly though.......we just want you two to be alright after the kids leave, so that is why we are staying after they doâ
âYeah, IF they doâ Mia agreed. Â
Well, thatâs it for this update........stay tuned for more! (and hopefully the pics I took as well.....just didnât know how to fit them in here). Thanks for reading!