You probably know this…but I get really turned on by doing  (semi-) public things. Somehow this feeling of privacy mixed with being in the public just helps me to cross boundaries…

Take her for example: She probably wouldn’t date to wear this at at the pool. Maybe at home around her bf. Now they are on a cruse. She enjoys the fresh air and wide sky as she lays on the own balcony.

She slowly gets used to the idea to wear this out. Maybe she’ll wear it next under a cami to the sundeck. Maybe she’ll make some friends on the boat for whom this is just normal. And then she’ll actually be happy to have this bikini.