I've been dating this guy I thought I was really into for a month and everything is going just great he is really really great but now I think I might not be into guys but I'm still not sure I've always thought I was straight or bi but after actually dating a guy I started struggling with my sexuality even more and I have no idea what to do
honestly it can be really difficult to figure out. it’s very hard to tell when your attraction is genuine. i used to have a bunch of really good resources for figuring out if you’re a lesbian but i seem to have lost a lot of them...i tried to find some similar ones anyway so hopefully these will help you
http://thatdiabolicalfeminist.tumblr.com/post/164526814159/common-experiences-of-lesbians-who-dont-know
https://ubiquitoussingularity.tumblr.com/post/137785176348/flesbian-signs-you-might-be-a-lesbian-you
http://positive-lesbian-vibes.tumblr.com/post/160027255602/how-i-recognized-comp-hetcoercive
https://closet-keys.tumblr.com/post/145685694488/how-to-know-if-you-are-actually-atracted-to-guys
https://veganscully.tumblr.com/post/165268015808/ive-seen-a-lot-of-people-struggle-with-the-idea
i am not a lesbian and don’t know what it’s like to struggle with figuring out if you’re a lesbian but last year i stopped IDing as bi and started IDing as gay and it was really difficult for me initially. it can be really hard to figure out what’s right for you and for me personally i didn’t know i was right til after i started calling myself gay. i’m sending you good energy and i hope you figure things out ok <3 if you wanna talk more you can always message us again or you can message me on my main ( @jasonptodd ). good luck