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One year ago on the 21st of March we filmed this in Dallas – it blesses my heart and reminds me of God's amazing grace and purpose beyond our understanding when I hear that someone has been encouraged by or shifted from this filming of my story. I hope that it will also bless and encourage you! The greatest awareness of this past year has been unbelievable speed of the passage of time! #seizeTHEday Our most amazing company is stacked with truly phenomenal individuals – these three continue to champion the efforts and success of our sales force in such extraordinary, heartfelt, talented and insightful ways. I pray that the journey shared through this story will be a beacon of hope, a blessing of encouragement, and an invitation to live fully in the midst of less than ideal circumstances – have a beautiful day today! My WHY STORY http://players.brightcove.net/1162425104001/SJ2kWtVj_default/index.html?videoId=5106663873001 #mymklife #designYourLife #blessedandgrateful #mywhystory #BeyondDreamBig

Need a refresher? Want to make the NEXT 90 days your best 90 days? I'd love to support you as you regroup, and come out it hard with intensity and determination! I have a couple of ideas! Join me NEXT Sunday night at 6 PM and bring a friend! #designYOURlife #beyonddreambig

Gorgeous walk today in spring-like weather! ☀️🌺🌴Absorbing amazing @leahlauchlan training in the fresh air and sunshine! 🌼#mymklife #90DaysofGreatness #BeyondDreamBig @regattabaygolf

Success accumulates. It's the small choices in the privacy of your half hour when you make the best over a good choice. And you repeat that half hour after half hour, workday after work day. The monotony of repetition becomes explosive success when you remain intentional about the private choice in the moment. Success accumulates. But so does failure. It's the result of not respecting the best choice in that half hour. The result of procrastinating the small task, the small action. It feels like it doesn't make any difference. But string that action together with a week of successful days and a month of successful weeks and a quarter a successful months and things will start to look different. You can change anything in 90 days. Your body. I relationship. Your career momentum. Since my December 26 Facebook live, More than one full week has passed. Did you take the questions at the end of week one of your design planner seriously? Did you contemplate them and actually write down answers? Did you follow their instruction to go back and review your goals, your affirmations, your new habits. And how is the design of your new week coming along? Push through! Trust the PROCESS!!! This is not just a theory, it's not just a goalsetting concept, it is a process of defining and designing who you are and want to become, and day by day investing in the thoughts, habits, and activities that a successful person does. Take that single step, and then take it again…#DesignYOURlife #myMKlife #beyonddreambig

2017-- can't we all just get along? Does someone have to be wrong in order for me{you} to be right? Divisiveness doesn't need a label or a statement. It is reflected in the conversations, accusations, gossips, retweets, "likes" --the old flags pulled that actually block real conversation, that block personal responsibility from emerging in larger character! The arrogance that my opinion matters more or that my way of seeing things is the only possible right way… it has to cease. My prayer this year is that I will EXUDE the love, grace, and inclusion that I want extended to me. And that I can ignore the ignorance, political bullying, stereo-typing and manipulation that others impose to advance their own popularity, wealth, promotion or agenda. Hypocrisy-Dishonesty-Disloyalty --3 traits I pray to be free from & 'THE 3' I will NOT tolerate in a personal relationship. I believe most of us are genuinely trying to get it right – to learn what it means to love the way God does – and to REALLY love. To give the best we have to our family, work, friends, community. I believe most of us are genuinely trying to get better – from the inside out. I will believe that about you, and I ask you to believe that about me. None of us is perfect nor will we say things perfectly or do things perfectly in this new year either. But one thing I know for sure, we are better together. We are better when we lift each other up and support each other in times of need. Encouragement! Applause! Optimism! Believing the best and expecting the best! In our private lives, in our family, our local community, and our nation, in our world. #2017 🎉🎯HAPPY NEW YEAR🎯🎉#DesignYOURlife #mymklife #beyonddreambig (at Bowling Green, Kentucky)

What have I learned from my past that I can carry into the success of my future? REMEMBER. We all make mistakes. We are blessed when we have the opportunity to learn from them. Support and love from family and friends, the input from professionals and wise counselors, a fresh start to move forward. But when we ignore all of that and repeat doing what we just want to do, what we "feel" like doing, life will offer up a price tag. Often the consequence becomes heavier and with a greater price when repeated. What lesson have I learned from my past that I do not want to repeat the consequences from? What choice or choices can I make today to safeguard that I am moving forward? What accountability or relationship or group or gathering will be beneficial to my honesty and support healthy decisions? What action steps can I take today to remind myself I am moving in the right direction? I can lash out, I can point a finger, I can get mad, I can tell myself the same old story, & blame someone else, but at the end of the day, if I'm wrong I am only kidding myself. Although my choices do affect other people – in beneficial and detrimental ways, my choices ultimately most affect me. It's the small choice – the seemingly insignificant choice that accumulates day after day and week after week. It's not the one big thing. It's the private Choice, made in a split second. That choice would take somewhere between one minute and one hour to complete – but the accumulation effect of that choice (those choices) will define my life. Choose well today. #mymklife #DesignYOURlife #BeyondDREAMbig

You know "QUITTING" has a lot of faces – not broadcasting your goal, not pushing yourself, not tracking results, not pursuing new business, staying inside your comfort zone, "checking out", redefining busy, welcoming distractions, gossiping, finding that friend who will listen to your justification, blaming someone else, believing your excuses – although that is not a comprehensive list, there are many things that actually indicate we have quit. Recognize any of these as your symptoms? Then JOLT yourself out of them! It can happen in any area of life – spiritually, physically, emotionally. It takes effort to grow and get better! A game plan, accountability, connection, celebration. Those components will take you to the next level in just about anything! CONVICTION GOAL COMMITMENT SUSTAINED PUSH THROUGH WORK EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT TRACKING ACCOUNTABILITY HONESTY CONNECTION PUSH THROUGH BENCHMARK CELEBRATION In our MK World – if you've checked out or "quit" (or even convinced yourself that in the new year you will THEN "do A B C "… ) then do the hard thing NOW. Take on a proven course of resurrection! A 10 party week, a GOLD MEDAL! BE ACCOUNTABLE!! So often we want more but are willing to do less. We want results, but we're not willing to change our habits. Simply ask yourself this one question – "if I continue doing .... " --and then list the possible consequences, outcomes. If they are the results you really want, that you can celebrate loudly with your family and friends, that you can bring other people along & call it success, then odds are you're on a good path. If any of the options for not giving it your best are less than appealing, then YOU and only you can make the correction! It's always a story of "2 friends". Find someone in victory, it will start like this "I had this friend" or " I had this coach (leader, pastor, teacher, boss)..." The reverse is also true – find someone in crisis or distruction... it will sound the same. "I had this friend..." Every turn around, every Victorious story, every celebration from the stage starts with a turning point. What will yours be? #DesignYOURlife #myMKlife #BeyondDREAMbig

A principle you can bank on -"Time invested in one area is time away from another.." it's simple! When I do one thing, I am exchanging that amount of time by not doing something else. So I had better be sure that what I am saying yes and no to have great and intentional value! Instead of watching the news, talk shows, scrolling through social media, or reading inflammatory posts, WHAT IF today, we operated out of vision, love, intention, and complete alignment to the calling God has placed on our lives? To anybody who takes this challenge, let me know your results by posting a comment right here on FRIDAY: Challenge: For THREE days, do not watch the news, do not read a news article on your phone, do not read another person's lengthy or divisive Facebook post. If you catch yourself scrolling, just say "I can do this on Saturday". In the time you would normally invest there, be UHBER proactive with your goals. "Is what I'm about to DO taking me closer to my stated goal – Financial? Leadership? Promotion? Service?" Just ask and then answer the question. And then dig in more deeply to do the work instead of embracing the distraction! Who's in? Just three days! And then you might decide (like me), it's a habit worth keeping! Oh by the way – there are three absolutely free videos on www.PamelaShaw.pink --that I believe will support you as you consider re-wiring your time management, refocusing on goals that matter, and reinvesting your God given minutes and hours to the lane he has you(me) swimming in!! Please help yourself and I pray you are blessed! #DesignYOURlife #BeyondDREAMbig