#bensan

《 詰まる 》

ずっと一輪挿しのコトを考えていたら動けなくなった。

好きならずっと考えてろ。

息抜きって発想が良くない。

何で好きでやってるのに息詰まってるの。

みたいなコトをかつて先輩に言われたな…

そん時は「行き詰まる」と「息詰まる」をかけているんだなーとだけ思ったのを覚えている。

二つの太陽  @kokoro-ippai​ said :  Warm arms wrap around her waist, lips pressing a kiss to her shoulder before resting his chin there. "You know," Ben starts, his voice low and soft. "I wish we didn't have to keep going to separate apartments."

( サンゴ ) ———

The dish she had been washing, quietly slipped back into soap and suds as hands moved to brace against the sink ; allowing her to lean back into his strong embrace. He RADIATED warmth, and never did it fail to prompt her into basking shamelessly in it. Tilting her head to brush against his jaw, dark eyes glanced beneath lush lashes to give him a smile both in feature and heart.

JUMBO SHIP // always accepting

二つの太陽 - @kokoro-ippai​ said : You know I gotta send in BenSan for the ship meme 😘

MODERN ( MW )

Who wakes the other one up with kisses: Sango wakes Ben with kisses on his jaw and cheek, nuzzling behind his ear and urging him slowly awake.

Who is the morning person/night person: Benjamin is the night person, Sango the morning person

Who is the romantic one: Benjamin, but he’s teaching her how to love.

Who is the more cuddly one: They both are - but Sango is by far, the clingy one.

Who cooks: Benjamin! Sango’s cooking consists of take-out and rice.

Favorite nonsexual activity: Running errands tbh -- they love doing things together just as much as they don’t mind doing their own thing. Though, they do continue to text each other throughout the day when apart.

Their favorite place to be together: Relaxing on the couch, they both live such high-volume lives that cool down places, where they can just enjoy themselves, are choice.

Any traditions: Not yet -- they only JUST started dating. I’m gonna say, still in their first year.

Their “song”:  Straight Outta Oz - Color

What they do for each other on holidays: SOON

Where did they go for their honeymoon: SOON

Where did they first meet: A ramen shop she never really ever been to before, and had decided to go out of convenience. She saw him there, sitting by himself in a lunch rush with all the other tables full. So she asked if she could sit next to him; and he said YES. 

Any pets: A stray kitten in a box on the side of the road needs rescuing before it starts raining!!

What do they fight over: Butt-stuff ( if you can call it fighting ) OK THEY DON’T FIGHT 

Do they go on vacations, if so where: Hunting / Survival Island Resort 

Who kills the bugs; Benjamin -- Sango puts them outside.

Who hogs the sheets; Benjamin -- his nightmares / terrors make him toss and turn.

Who hates mornings; Neither ?? Maybe Ben ---

Who’s cranky before they had their coffee; Sango! But he’s asleep during this time, so he’s safe from her oni-onna face.

Who’s doesn’t like their mother in law; Neither... both of their parents are gone. But Chikako would have LOVED Ben and Kohaku looks up to him ( just like a boy )

Who drives; Benjamin -- Sango owns a Ducati Ninja and thats not conducive to hand-holding and conversation.

Who gets horny in awkward public places; Benjamin but thats Sango’s fault

Who had a scene phase; Neither?

Who wore braces; Neither??

Who got bullied; Sango took a lot of abuse growing up, the little girl who always tried to play with the boys. alienated the girls, intimidated the boys.

Who is louder? Sango, Ben has to cover her mouth sometimes, so the neighbors don’t hear. But she enjoys seeing how loud she can make HIM.

Who is more experimental? Both?? Both.

Who takes more risks? Sango. She takes ALL of the unnecessary risks, though he isn’t exempt.

Do they fuck or make love? BOTH !!!!

Lights on or off? Both, but Sango does enjoy appraising and visually savoring him.

Who is more likely to be caught masturbating? Benjamin lmfao !!

Who is more likely to suggest a threesome? Neither -- too possessive.

Has either stolen the other’s underwear? Sango steals all of his clothes lbr but there was that one time Ben tried to fit into her yoga pants.

Who comes first? Sango. Many times.

Who is better at oral and who prefers it? Benjamin is better, but he’s a fantastic teacher and Sango is a quick study.

Who is more submissive? Sango

Who usually initiates things? Both, it’s pretty evenly matched

Who is more sensitive? Sango, but she’s turning the tables on him

Who has the most patience? Sango -- she can push his limits ALL day

 二つの太陽  - @kokoro-ippai​ said :  ( ✉ → sms ) even when i’m durnk ic ant sotp thinking about oyu (enjoy a drunk Benny lol)

( サンゴ ) ———

二つの太陽  - @kokoro-ippai​ said :  BenSan headcanons - go!

I LOVE MAKING HEADCANONS !!

PAST

sango is the first up & easiest to rise in the mornings, and while she can’t make much besides rice and simple dishes -- she ‘can’ make sure the makings for tea are prepared and ready for him. ( coffee is something they’d have to get through kagome <3 )

being a light sleeper, when ben has nightmares sango will wake up and do her best to soothe him with softly spoken words of reassurance; running her fingers through his hair or stroking his back until he calms down, or goes back to sleep.

she loves washing his hair for him, just to watch him relax and enjoy it. catch her love-sick and dreamy @ him when he’s not paying attention. those are one of her favorite moments, watching him unguarded and focused on something else. ( men can be legit STUPID sexy while they’re concentrating, i.e; training, reading, working with their hands to build or fix something )

when she cleans / sharpens / tends to her weapons upkeep -- she makes sure ben’s weapons are equally always 200% ready for battle. this includes the condition of his clothing as well; sewing and stitching come easy to her, as it blends well with the medicinal parts of her training. if you can stitch fabric, you can sew a wound. his clothing is always folded, clean and waiting for him - freshly repaired with a single lily or mountain flower sitting on top.

she’s constantly working the forge in the taijiya village or making some kind of repair ; to the graves, the walls, or the houses. and so often she’s also the last to bed if he doesn’t wake up in the morning to her STILL out and needing to pull her away in order to take care of herself. she has a bad habit of throwing herself into her work when shes not working a job or a mission. 

sango is not used to be lavished in affection -- after her mother died sango took up kohaku’s raising in her stead. fulfilled her duties as taijiya and excelled through the ranks. while she knows paternal & family love  -- the love of a spouse or mate is something she has to get used to. so every little gesture; every soft kiss, reverent touch, gift of plenty of emotion, mean EVERYTHING to her. sango loves him in ways she doesn’t know how to express, because she’s doesn’t know how. ben is teaching her the language of love.

kirara like’s to follow ben around & sleep on his stomach or his back ( it only make sango a LITTLE jealous )

he hates it when she cries, but ben makes her cry happy tears all the time. for someone who is hardened by war, loss and grief -- his love and affection can’t be measured in mere words. so she does her best to show him every day, to TELL him every chance she gets.

the first time ben sango and kohaku are all in the same space -- things get crazy and painful and ben gets to see sango dissemble.

CRACK

sometimes ben has to come pick her up ( literally ) and walk her away from arguing / bickering with yusuke. its not aggressive ( she just likes fighting with him ??? )  (ง •̀ゝ•́)ง