#bemixt asks

Mmh, that's a good question.

I'm not sure if it's a style per se but I like it when people are very up-front about their vibe. Anonymity is wonderful, it's very freeing, but it can make it hard to have a real followed up conversation. So I always appreciate when people are either explicit ("please do this to me, I wish I could do this to you") or very colorful, like, with some unmistakable characterization (like, someone referring to themselves as a pup or mutt, as girl or boy, as a specific role...).

I'd say that it's easier for me to reply when I have some clues about :

- pronouns (it can be subtil, like, "I'm a bad girl who can't control their impulses" would mean "I use feminine terms but use neutral pronouns")

- role (sub, dom, switch)

- something specific that the anon wants (a scenario, a kink, anything). I'm a pleasure dom, so the pleasure I take while dominating people comes from the pleasure my sub takes. Of course, I have preferences ;) but if someone says "do what you want with me", it doesn't really do it for me. As soon as they give like, one example ("do what you want, spit on me I don't care") it gives me a clear indication about how they want to be dominated.