#beingdumped

Well I got my answer, ‘ex boyfriend’ received my letter back in November and I thought we were working things out. In December, movie, dinner, massage for my birthday and came to my son’s house for Christmas. All lovey dovey. Then, bam, his mama is doing poorly again, allegedly. Incommunicado. Bam, breaks up with me via VOICE MESSAGE! A damn fucking grown ass man. After 2 years, tells me it’s never going to work because we’d never see each other and he doesn’t want to live with any one???? I’m pissed because I should said something at about A year. I had no intention of having a commuting relationship indefinitely, too old for that shit. Honestly, 3 out of 4 times, he came over, I fed him, we had sex, he fell asleep. In 2 years, we went to dinner about 4 times. A dozen movies, Cedar Point, gambling once. He used work and his mom as excuses. He talked to his ex girlfriend and his ‘friend who was a girl’ about us. Not to me. He never introduced me to his family, other than his daughter. He came and ate, but didn’t bring anything ever, when my kids and my friends invited him into their home. He never asked or offered any type of help, ever. He gives me a card and tells me he loves me and then a week later, dumps me by voice mail… I’m crushed, I’m angry, I’m hurt. My heart hurts….