#bdsmposting

hey does anyone want to do unsafe BDSM that leaves me with several fractured bones and some brain damage. as friends

the idea that audhd NECESSARILY makes you more submissive is infantalizing to submissives and dominants alike. not because neurodivergence does not contribute to D/S but because doms are very neurodivergent As Often if you actually know em and it’s just like not talked about. because it’s not cute, or something, i don’t really know. i think the interiority of dominance is absent from freak discourse in this era where more and more people are becoming interested in bdsm and it’s actually very necessary to understand why your dom likes what they like on an intellectual level or your dynamic is cooked and you will forever view them in caricature. to be clear this is 1000% as much the fault of doms as it is the fault of subs because they are reluctant to be transparent. let’s hold hands and Talk