fanon (dis)agreement: kinda long sorry
there are SOOO many so im doing one of each
im a permashift with lots of memories so im a little seperate from fanon & canon ideas, but one that i like is probs the amount of jokes about me and b having 5000 contingencies. yes. yes we do. the amount of backup plans is horrible. batman is always prepared. and double prepared. and triple, and quadruple, et all.
theres a TON that i dont like but, mainly, i dont like when people try and frame our little family as super close and loving (cough, batfam stuff, cough cough). i love my family. we were not very close. dick and jay were almost never there, i was a son sometimes and a ward other times, damian had shit to work out, and bruce was an emotionally constipated drill sergeant. cass was actually pretty sweet and duke was a lot more of a teammate and close friend to me. i love them- but we are far from a perfect family. the whole ‘family’ idea is kinda an afterthought- its hard to put a label on what we are.