#bashful-turtle

gotcha!

J: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

Serious relationships are preferred, but I don’t really have experience with flings so I’d be willing to try out of curiosity.

O: Do you believe in the phrase, “Age is just a number?” Why or why not?

Age is just a number, but the knowledge and power closely correlated make it hard to argue in favor of most huge age gaps. It depends on the people but the more different the ages the more difficult it is to have a healthy dynamic between the partners.

H: Would you date someone who's know for cheating, if yes why?

I mean I guess it’s possible but unlikely because it’s that much harder to keep the trust required for a good relationship.

N: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

As soon as they know the risks, consequences, and have access to protection; as early as 14 is fine if circumstance is right but a lot depends on how emotionally mature and ready for a sexual relationship the people involved are.

W: Do you think people should date their friends?

Yeah, but the dynamics get tricky when the friendships involved are close and the two share a large group of friends.

I: What’s the most important part of a relationship?

The open flow of information, without which sex isn’t done right and problems in the relationship aren’t solved.  If information is shared then trust naturally comes with that.

S: What do you consider a deal breaker?

If she likes comic sans. Racism, Sexism, Homophobia, Transphobia etc are really problems.  A belief that sex before marriage is morally wrong also tends to lead to friction, but might not be an immediate dealbreaker.

T: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?

One or both partners doesn’t feel it’s right, or cheating happened, or the relationship becomes unhealthy (abusive) it must end.

L: How many people have you ever hooked up with?

Hooked up as in had sex? 0

E: Pretend I’m you ex, what do you want to say to me?

✈ - hobbies?

Hair care, Pens and pen related activities, video games when I have time, tumblr whether or not I have time, and spinning pens in class.

ツ - any pets?

A ridiculous cat my dad named akiba after the chessplayer. My dad plays chess.

❣ - how would it be your ideal date?

Oh jeez I don't have a specific thing but if it doesn't involve cuddling I'm not willing to call it ideal. So something along the lines of what you answered to this question because damn that sounds awesome.

❦-.fave characters?

Himeko, Ichijo, and if it counts the Ichijo feast from pani poni dash, Eddie from RHPS, Chiyo's father and Osaka from Azumanga Daioh, Marisa, Alice, and Suika from Touhou just to name a few. I could go on listing touhou characters longer than anyone could read this post.

✬ - photo of me?