#based philosophy

physical and intimacy does not give anything to me. Having sex and making out doesn't make me a better person or contribute to my future. It's okay that I'm not promiscuous or sensually appealing. Anyone who puts these things at such a high priority that it overrides values and compatibility is not worth my time or energy in a relationship. One day I will find someone who values me as a human and not a reputation or shape of flesh.

why is it so hard to have priorities other than drugs, sex, or popularity? Why is it that I get cooked for being a virgin, as if it's a bad thing that I have standards that include things other than physical appearance and no one at this age is promiscuous but also a regular fucking human being? What's so fucking terrible about liking tie-dye but not being addicted to five hallucinogens? fuck it, if people want to de-value me in their eyes because I have my eyes set on my best interest, I'll let them.