One thingās for sure: Namjoon gets active being courteous with assertive ladies. He becomes super focused, gets excited easily (read: horny), makes tremendous efforts, is flirtatious, shy, cute. I reckon no other member in Bangtan can be as suave as RM. Not even Jimin. Whoās the Prince of Charm as we know. But itās all a bit chaotic, extroverted, and depends on the mood. Namjoon is so deliberate being consistently smooth, the understated way. And herein lies his strong point: He knows the method of how to always put her first.Ā
Now our interest here is how that goes together with his submissive side. A perfect exhibit of how Namjoon gravitates toward dominant women, gets along well, and is being suave, where do we find something like that. I think we can actually get quite a lot out of the first mins of Hello Counselor, May 2015. In which Namjoon was conveniently seated next to the domme in charge: Jessi. We all know what she prefers:
Jessiās dominant through and through: public image, behind the scenes ā even if she can be gentle, on stage. Itās true that she amps it up there, donāt get me wrong. But she is known for a very direct approach in person wherever she goes, and has always hinted at being similar sexually speaking in her songs, from Noona Kinks to leashes:
Sheās a good, close to foolproof example if we want to look at dommes. RM, believe it or not, met her, they interacted a lot, and something surprising happened.Ā
1:42 Itās already the first scene and heās at it. Jessi, being her dominant self, is confronting the MC quite confidently. And what does RM do? He shifts his body closer to her. He didnāt look like he noticed. I did. Caught you, Joon.
2:07 Now that Jessi is at full throttle taking over the show as always, Joon gets coy. He looks down and fiddles with his cuff. Boyās nervous. Look at that smol bean.
2:14 Unlike Taehyung, Joon looks at her performance smiling andĀ stares. He nods his head along to the rap but then tries to avoid looking at her? No, His eyes go up to the left, upwards. That means accessing memory, emotion, and thinking. Heās analyzing what she says, too. Note his entire bodyās moving to the rhythm while most of the other cast members sit still. That guy is feeling it and tries to figure her out at the same time.Ā
2:38 More nervousness. This time: touching the calves. He often caresses himself to be calmer. His rap intonation is strangely sharp there, obviously, heās trying to impress but not overshadow her because he keeps it brief. Jessi,Ā of course, is super happy and claps, flips her hair to the side. Acknowledgement!
3:34 More peacocking. Namjoon clumsily dances backwards right into her zone but his face says smug. That was no coincidence. He looks back at her twice. She imitates the moves. Heās satisfied with the results and looks at Tae like good job! Now Jessi is a bit nervous and fiddles at her tank top. She always pushes her hair back to flirt, exposing the neck (pheromones, showing an erogenous area to kiss, you know how it goes), and guess on which side? Namjoonās.Ā
4:08 Theyāre back to the start: Namjoon messing with his own shirt. A minute later, itās his plushie pillow. Do you see how they went back and forth? Thatās mirroring ā aka they like each other. Youāll see it all over, especially when both clasp their hands the same way. Itās good chemistry, a good dynamic.
6:04 A classic tough-minded joke by Jessi. Nobody looks at her laughing except Namjoon who is genuinely giggling with her turning his head. But downwards, looking at her from below. Subservience! As he does that, her front foot shifts towards him! Then, they lean their bodies to the exact same side.Ā
9:01 Again, their bodies sync to align. Joon is busy stroking his calf again. Then laughs his ass off to ease the awkward tension when Jessi gets a negative spotlight and super pissed since she fits the rapper stereotype that the mom criticizes. He also sends sceptical, uneasy gazes and a crooked smile to the mom. You can tell by the expression,Ā āoh dear, what does she say to Jessi next...ā
9:45 TheyĀ almost touch! By him pointing at JessiāsĀ knees during the torn jeans joke. And he uses both hands for that, not just one, wtf! Even a flat palm just hovering there lmao. Physical Freudian slip, that guy is dying to touch her but wonāt since he catches himself (good boy). Jessi,Ā however, is leaning back either way, itās unclear whether he dodges or not since she faces the other way in the first place. She is rather uncomfortable at more negative focus on her created by the hosts, so Namjoon again tried to ease the situation.Ā
Meanwhile, they have completely synchronized their positions ā Jessi crossed her legs, Namjoon clasped his hands, both got themselves a pillow to hold on their lap:Ā
Notice again how she keeps her hair to the other side so he can see her face/expression.
12:38 Perfect simultaneous head turn!Ā
13:16 While Jessi has a mad as fuck glare toward the rude daughter, Namjoon is busy pulling his lip down with his pinky and thumb? What! Like hello madam, donāt mind the drama,Ā how about kisses instead (remember her neck display earlier. it fits). Again, he tries to distract from Jessi getting into trouble. Itās really a consistent topic how he accommodates.
When she is very straightforward, RM says appeasing things. Itās striking that he doesnāt get aggressive, offended, contemptuous, or tries to resist like most men Jessi rightfully calls out but works his way around being diplomatic. Even if he is not part of the conflict, he still backs her up, and that says something about how selfless his affection is apart from wanting to seize her attention.
I think their dominant vs submissive inclinations sort of polarize but right when it gets interesting, they sort of disperse because other people get the screen time. For the rest of the broadcast I just noticed they return to sync pretty often, Jessi looks at him quite intently, and keeps her hair from falling to his side at all times :ā)Ā
So this is what we got. Take a look yourself. I think his behaviour is quite notable: wanting her close, always endorse, impressing her, being pretty nervous because somethingās at stake. Heās definitely the kind of sub who will show his fondness quite readily (Ć la Taehyung or Jimin) instead of going into his shell waiting for initiative. I observed Jungkook and Yoongi doing this many times which is simply their unique manner of doing it. It takes another type of domme for that. Namjoon will be demonstrative and supportive right away on the other hand. And thatās a good closing note describing his way of submission, he has a lot of what I think the modern devoted gentleman can offer a domme.
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What scent do the members prefer?
Suga: Citrus (Surprised by this really. Yoongi somewhat didn't fit the personality type of a person who would wear citrus. Idk maybe it was just me. Or maybe secretly heās an organized person and I donāt see it.)
Jungkook: Soap and milk (somewhat like baby powder I guess. Fetus scent. lololol. Not surprised since Jungkook loves to look innocent.)
Jin: Sweet fruit or figs (I'm guessing Jin uses scents like four seasons and pomegranates. Social butterfly scents. Strawberry scent doesnāt suit him that's for sure.)
Jimin: Doesn't wear any (I think he already mentioned in one fansign that he doesn't wear perfumes when a fan told him he smelled nice, ergo he is heaven scent. Pun intended)
Jhope, V, and RM: No info provided. SAAAAAAD. But if you were to ask me, I think Jhope would wear ocean breeze or forest scents. Heās fresh and free-spirited.Ā V would prefer musk or vanilla since he likes to appear sophisticated and sexy when heās not talking.
I am having a hard time analyzing what scent RM would wearā¦ I initially thought that he loves to wear scents like rose or cherry blossom but after reading that he doesn't really dig artificial scents, I could be wrong. Maybe spice???? Hahahaha. But he really looks like a rose scent kind of guy... ^^;
