#bamon endgame

I honestly don’t know what to do with my life anymore im so bitter and sad Not only cuz delena and steroline are most likely endgame but just by what the show has become.

 It was so good in earlier seasons and had so much potential but then it just suddenly stopped progressing, storylines made no sense, characters stopped developing or lacked common sense. Characters somehow also forgot everything they believed in in earlier seasons and just changed into something they are not. 

Honesty if your not gonna give me a stelena, bamon and klaroline endgame then make the real endgames (delena, steroline ) actually make sense. 

It honestly baffles me how this show, shows you everything wrong with a couple (abusive, 

controlling,

 co dependent,

He legit killed her brother cuz she rejected him. 

 toxic, 

I mean he literally said the words

I miss when elena wasn’t soley driving on lust for Damon i missed when she was strong and told him what he had to hear.

And their excuse for being such a terrible relationship that does not grow and fluorish is....

(Tbh the delena fandom hypes this scene up way too much, they basically list off all the reasons why they suck as a relationship then just say “But that’s okay cuz a real relationship is where you accept all your significant others psychopathic tendencies and just learn to live with them” *Note the sarcasm*    shall i continue?) 

It’s just funny how they just somehow want you to accept that it’s true love because the couple somehow can ignore all these bad things about each other cuz ‘THEY ARE SO IN LOVE’ (Like is this TVD or the new Twilight?) 

and then you see the beautiful Stelena and Bamon scenes where bonnie doesn’t just accept Damon being a murdering psychopath and doesn’t make excuses for him but rather points out the things he does wrong and shows him how they are wrong. 

and Stefan is inspired by Elena to be a good person and hold onto his humanity, not because he feels he has to in order  “To keep the girl” But because he respects her enough to. And he doesn’t go on murdering sprees after every fight they have.

Cue the OTPS

and can we talk about this for a sec...

He actually WANTS to be good with Bonnie. Rather than feeling obligated to with Elena.

And he wants Bonnie to be happy even if he isn’t there to share her happiness with her. Unlike Delena where damon does not like a version of Elena that’s not crazy about him.

*ME ABOUT STELENA, BAMON AND KLAROLINE

And then karoline

He respects her and thinks so highly of her and sees her as a strong independent women and when she does reject him, he accepts it and would rather earn her love than force himself on her. 

Tbh the latest episode of TVD made me feel like i was at a dinner party i didn’t want to go to and was force fed a pile of bullshit. 

It’s all about The Balance, Baby.

Qetsiyah started it all.  She created The Other Side as a final resting place for the Supernaturals.  After The Other Side imploded, there was (we thought) no place for the Supernaturals to find “peace”.

Enter Cade.  There is a place for Supernaturals and humans to find a place of damnation for all eternity.  Hell.

Bonnie Bennett just struck a blow for The Balance.  Bonnie Bennett created an alternative to Hell; which would be Heaven (in Kai-speak).

That one scene in s3 of tvd when Elena was hiding in a closet to find stefan cuz he ran off with klaus in order to keep her safe and then they came face to face with each other. THAT SCENE had like 100000x more chemistry than all of the delena and steroline scenes combined. The tension and chemistry that built up and the anticipation and all they had to do was look at each other and you could feel the love and longing that they had for each other just radiating off of them.

(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFVR2_C2nqg)

Came full circle. It’s what he wanted…..then didn’t want…..then wanted…..then didn’t want…..who cares he’s Human. Hmmm you know Elena is human. An she did get turned on from that day dream Whatshisnames sent her where she has a happy human life with Stefan plus children.