Hey buddy buddy bug, you're not at fault! You're cool beans, okay? You, like anyone who isn't a professional at these things, worded something badly cos you weren't thinking about the potential misconceptions people could derive from it. Honestly, it's rude for someone to come to you in such a harsh manner without even asking you to clarify or state your case first. Smh, guilty til proven 'a little less guilty' on this site
aghH my goodness, thank you so much! ๐ข I really appreciate the kind words a whole heck of a lot,, I was feeling pretty torn up yesterday because I legitimately feel bad about hurting someone to that degree, especially because it was unintentional and through my own ignorance. I should've figured that, with the way the conversation was going, it would bring about very broad generalizations, but I can be s o heckin' dense sometimes and not realize what I might be insinuating/how people will react when I say something. Even with all of the disclaimers, I should've realized that it doesn't excuse the damage assumptions like that can leave.
With all of that being said, I appreciate ya coming to my defense and understanding where I was coming from - I seriously do cherish and respect everyone's experiences and opinions. ๐ข๐ I always try to be an inviting and chill person to interact/have discussions with, but sometimes stupid things can slip out when I get way too invested for my own good and I start raving like I do around my irl friend groups. ๐