#averagequeer

If you make a term that is constantly negative, 100% of the time, then you need to expect backlash. Yes, you’re allowed your anger. But you cannot stab someone and expect them not to freak out.

Gee wilickers, I really didn’t think I had to explain this but I guess I do!

If you block somebody because they have a disorder, especially one they STRESS they are seeking recovery for and would never indulge/romanticize, you’re not a good person. Not saying you’re a bad person either, but I will certainly have my opinions.

I have OCD! And with that comes the unwanted intrusive thoughts that I have fucked/wanted to fuck a dead body. Have I ever ACTUALLY done that? No. And I never want to. I am getting help to make it so my thoughts are mitigated, and regardless all of my urges are suppressed because I’m AWARE THEY ARE WRONG.

With that being said, nobody is required to follow me or tolerate me knowing that. But if your entire stance is because of my UNWANTED thoughts, I will consider you ableist. Because that IS ableist.

Hi there!! I’m the coiner of Averagequeer, a blankqueer term whose whole purpose is just to be an average guy!

I thought I’d be fun to make a dedicated side blog to this, so here we go:

- You can call me Brutus ^^

- I have Radnormal moots, but I’m not radnormal myself

- I use He/they or He/it pronouns (pls don’t take that as a pass to just call me “He/Him”

Some silly stamps and blinkies under the cut ^^ warning though: they’re bright