#austbro

Woke up this morning, you apologized for last night. I thought you were just apologizing for being weird about me getting there late and promised you it was all good. We were gushy for a bit, and I check my texts- you texted me a bunch last night, apologizing and calling, but I didn’t hear you call cause I was asleep. You unsent a ton of messages, which is very, very unlike you.

From your POV, this is apparently what happened last night.

I took too long to call and you were really worried. I wasn’t talking much when I finally called, and then stopped replying altogether, while you were rambling about something you don’t want to tell me about. Something about how I’m not caring about this..?

Then, my brother comes in, and after not replying to you I answer him, and we start talking. You feel neglected and upset so you hang up. Then I didn’t call back or even seem to notice you were gone, and you say some aggressive things you immediately unsend because they felt manipulative to you (but I still don’t know what those things were). You panic even more, spam calling me and tearing up. You give up and try to sleep but it wasn’t working.

Suddenly I call you back, as if I finally decided to bother responding to you, and we fell asleep.

I legitimately remember none of this. I don’t remember a word he said. I don’t remember my brother coming in and us talking, though he confirmed it happened and even said he sat on my back. He said I was talking like I was drunk.

I remember none of this.

Is someone at fault here? Were you being unreasonable...?