Hey do you still have a post or explanation about that thing where you pee every chance you get to make it harder to hold? I can hold damn near all day without bursting or wiggling or really doing any of the fun parts n I'm sick of having to wait hours on end just to feel a little desperate, but I can't find what I'm looking for :")
hahah the method you're thinking of is "rapid desperation" !! I would recommend googling it but heres a quick overview:
for a few hours you're gonna drink an elevated amount of water, nothing crazy, but more than usual. and every time you have a slight urge to pee, or every half hour, you're gonna go pee!! basically you are getting your kidneys to start working super quickly to process all that water, and they're working hard because they know that you're gonna go whenever you need to.
now, when you wanna hold, just stop. you can continue drinking, in fact you should prolly drink a little, but you should get desperate super quickly, because your kidneys are still working super hard!! your body has gotten used to peeing whenever you even slightly need to, so now holding it is gonna be way more difficult.
I'm the same as you, and I find that rapid desp is the best way for me to hold, cause otherwise holding just takes way too long and makes me feel sick which is no fun. just make sure to be drinking a safe amount of liquids and stop if you feel bad!! and maybe eat some salty snacks during, but definitely eat some afterwards. best of luck with it!!! feel free to update me π