#askalternativeffa

It's edited.

To be honest, the real, unedited photo is definitely better. Just me, outside in a ridiculous dress and spiderweb umbrella and a selfie stick.

My girlfrend went off to India, returning in a few months. When we'd met, I'd been lean, skinny.

I picked her up at the airport and the first thing out of her mouth was a puzzled look on her face, followed by "You got fat!"

We went back to my place. Clothes came off.

"You've got breasts!" she laughed.

She was obsessed.

"Your stomach is HUGE! Are you pushing it out?"

"Haha, no."

"Wow. You look 6 months."

Got on top of her.

"You're so heavy!

She squeezed my new love handles as I fucked her.

She got off when I ate her pussy. I eat pussy really well.

We ate a meal.

"Your stomach is hanging," she said. "I've never slept with a guy whose tits are bigger than mine."

I was so turned on, I can't even tell you.

I think "Wow, you got fat!" are the hottest four words on earth.

The humlity of giving up your lean, hard, fit body and growing a fat, flabby one where girls no longer check you out, and you have a pad of fat surrounding your penis. Everything falling, collapsing. No muscle tone.

A lot of chips!

Walking around the room naked and seeing her watching, and she can't believe how fat you got.

This isn't a question. Why is it under "asks"?

Is this a fantasy? Did it really happen?

I live with my fat man. Everything I post about my relationship is real.

But people can't tell the difference: is my post real life? Or is my post a fantasy? I keep it vague. I go back and forth... a fat fetish fantasy, then a real life anecdote.

Oooo, somebody didn't like my response! I'm actually laughing. I'm sorry if you felt I responded in "anger", you've definitely misread it, if that's the case.

Also, dunno how you can read "anger" from a text response. I'm like the least angry person alive. If you interpreted it as anger, maybe step back and check yourself.

But I'll do the same. After reviewing my response... this is my answer:

I do have a dry sense of humor. I could see how, if someone was unsure, they could read my sarcastic humor as anger. But it's not my intention.

Edit:

Also, being an FFA on any kind of platform... I'm bombarded with sexual asks and messages that I occasionally do respond slightly aggressively towards. When you're dealing with so many guys hitting you up for sexual reasons, despite me saying everywhere that I can that I'm taken... it's an instinct.

-Insert Smiley Face-

I've actually never really got judgment for it. I've been super open about what I'm into my whole life, so it really was no surprise to anyone that I ended up with a fat man.

In fact, my friends were more like, "Finally!" Whereas my parents just didn't mention it. I mean, I've been writing fat kink stories since I was 11 years old, so my parents definitely saw them and read them... me just leaving the pages in the typewriter. So I'm sure they weren't surprised either.

And, as for my husband, he has been big his whole life, so he doesn't get much negativity either. I mean, occasionally, someone in his family will say something rude to him. I'm not a fan of that, especially since they are bigger people, too. But it's never been anything extremely judgemental.

He's not really an active gainer anymore. He just loves the eroticism of being fed.

Well, I'm certainly not a fan of AI. When I started using it for images for my stories... I suppose I thought it was a necessary evil. People are more likely to read a story with an image.

BUT - I agree that AI is causing way more harm than good. I've thought of other options... maybe drawing a quick sketch myself... I've even reached out to fat content artists for collaboration, to no avail.

Oh yeah, I get that.

I was lucky to know what I was into at a super early age.