Feb 9
I love you pfp! It looks so cool!
It's edited.
To be honest, the real, unedited photo is definitely better. Just me, outside in a ridiculous dress and spiderweb umbrella and a selfie stick.
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I love you pfp! It looks so cool!
It's edited.
To be honest, the real, unedited photo is definitely better. Just me, outside in a ridiculous dress and spiderweb umbrella and a selfie stick.
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As a FFA with a large partner, do you ever get judgement from friends and family? How do you handle things like that?
I've actually never really got judgment for it. I've been super open about what I'm into my whole life, so it really was no surprise to anyone that I ended up with a fat man.
In fact, my friends were more like, "Finally!" Whereas my parents just didn't mention it. I mean, I've been writing fat kink stories since I was 11 years old, so my parents definitely saw them and read them... me just leaving the pages in the typewriter. So I'm sure they weren't surprised either.
And, as for my husband, he has been big his whole life, so he doesn't get much negativity either. I mean, occasionally, someone in his family will say something rude to him. I'm not a fan of that, especially since they are bigger people, too. But it's never been anything extremely judgemental.
As for advice on how to handle judgment like that... I guess it depends on the person and the intention. I would advise just to be completely honest about what you're into (unless you feel that doing so might put you in an unsafe situation. I mean, the fact that an unsafe situation could arise from being honest about love of fat is just such a shitty thing.)
How big are you trying to make your husband?
He's not really an active gainer anymore. He just loves the eroticism of being fed.
But even at the beginning, we had no goal. Other than to just enjoy the ride.
please step back and evaluate your use of ai
Well, I'm certainly not a fan of AI. When I started using it for images for my stories... I suppose I thought it was a necessary evil. People are more likely to read a story with an image.
BUT - I agree that AI is causing way more harm than good. I've thought of other options... maybe drawing a quick sketch myself... I've even reached out to fat content artists for collaboration, to no avail.
If you're THAT against AI, I'm actually surprised you're hiding behind an anonymous ask. Like, did you think I was going to argue with you that AI was good or something? Cuz it's not good, and I am not a fan of using it.
I can second your experience, there's no singular event for me that I can point to, I've always been into fat women. Any 'events' were really about finding or reinforcing something I already knew about myself than being some sort of revelation? I guess the only real change has been realizing that I feel good about getting fat myself, but that feels more like something I knew was always there rather than a true revelation. It's hard to relate to those questions about how did I know because it was more a a progression or filling in the blanks than any real epiphany of what I was into
Oh yeah, I get that.
I was lucky to know what I was into at a super early age.
I'm 36. And I've known that only fat men attract me since I was super young. Then at 11 years old, I discovered that my preference had a name. (And more importantly, I knew there were others out there with the same desire as me. It made me feel less alienated.)
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I want to get stuffed and be teased etc lol
Okay, cool. Then go find a feeder or an FFA that's not married.
Maybe it is a threat
Wow.
Creep-galore.
If I'm gonna get shit like this from anonymous... I'll just turn off the option to ask questions anonymously.
Go ahead, ruin it for everyone else.
Hi, I am a male FA, more FA than feeder, although I wouldn’t mind some soft feedism. I am married to a BBW who loves that I love her body, but doesn’t love her body as much as I do. So unfortunately I have to thread carefully when sometimes all I want to say is “I want to feel your big, fat soft belly on me” or something similar. Anyway, I want to say that I love your blog and since you mentioned below on the feeder Q&A that we could ask away: would you mind answering #1, 2, 9 and 12?
Awww, it's a tough situation to be in when you find your significant other to be beautiful, but they don't feel the same way. My only advice is to provide support and affirming language. And, unfortunately, sometimes affirming language requires that "fat" and other similar words aren't used. It's important that one's partner is comfortable. But I'm sure you know all that already!
To answer the questions:
1 - when did you realize you like overweight people?
My whole life. I didn't realize it was sexual until I hit puberty. And then it was like... wait... fat is a sexual thing?
2 - when did you become a feeder?
I still wouldn't classify myself as one. I am only a feeder to who wants it. And my husband took that position.
9 - what's your fat fantasy?
I love extremely fat men. So I suppose the main fantasy that I go to is a caregiver role for someone too fat to do most things.
12 - have people ever judged you about being a feeder?
Not really. They know I love fat men. I'm not really a feeder since I prefer my men to be big already. But pretty much everyone knows I'm in a fat positive relationship where we have mutual admiration towards him being fat.
I've gotten more judgment from complete strangers than anyone I know in real life. Pictures of my BHM & I were leaked years ago and posted everywhere as a thing to make fun of on mainstream social media. So I've received that kind of judgment from tens of thousands of strangers... but no one in my day to day life.