#aquariusman

So... I am so sad to see people being almost afraid of and avoiding this man! I LOVE this position. This is my first time doing this, but I just had to do this for all the diamonds out there who’s struggling with understanding this lovable cutiepie of a man.

So let’s get the facts on the table. HOW is it really to be with an Aquarius Venus man? Let’s play true or false about this stereotype - Based on my experience. 

Is he like the stereotype Aquarius Venus?

- YEEES! well ofc, there are some other aspects in his natal chart that has a say in it too, but that’s another story. Basically, yes. 

Does he really have a hard time opening up?

- Omg, yes. It has taken me 2 years to get him to open somewhat up to me on the relationship part.

Is he emotionally distant?

- Yup. This is true. This position is honestly not for everyone, but that does not mean he doesn’t care for you. He just has his own way of showing it and usually, it is veeery sublte and hidden and you can barely even see it. He is a smooth f*cker

Then how does he show emotions?

-Well. First off, if you are anything like me, you would start fire and flames for your loved one. I can be very aggressive and forward when it comes to showing my love. If you can see yourself in that statement, you should seriously arm yourself with a lot of patience. Because he is NOT like that.

If you want and/or expect him to go to battle and fight his way in for you and your relationship, he won’t do that. At least not as a front line soldier. He will be the master mind behind it all to make sure he wins the war with intelligence, strategy and patience.

He will fight the silent battle. And that is very difficult to understand for most people, ‘cause you can’t actually see him taking any action. He does not overload you with touchy fingers and sweet words

Isn’t he just too difficult?

- Not at all when you get hang of it. In the beginning I felt like I was trying to solve the f*cking Da Vinci mystery, honestly. But the thing is, you have to go a little deeper. With this guy, you have to look for the smaller details, not the bigger picture. Usually, everything you need to know and want to know is right there in front of your eyes, you just have to look a little closer. His love is an abstract painting with focus on the fine, small brush strokes. Pay attention

Is he a stubborn dumbass?

Haha, he is. If Aquarius Venus wants to do something and you “demand” him to do it right the second before he does it, he will do the exact opposite. Don’t ever try to tame or control him, its a lost cause

Can you ever really get him to settle down? 

- Of course you can! But it won’t happen right away. He WILL give you grey hairs long before that, trust me. But once you have him, he will never leave no matter the obstacles. He kinda just continues to hang around like a little fruit fly, chilling in the corner waiting for things to calm down. When you disturb the peace and wave your hands around after him, he will quickly fly away, but only shortly and he’s never too far away 

Is he an independent loner?

- Oh yes, to the independent part. He will never get on your nerves though. Not much chance at being co-dependend here. You live your seperate lives but together, and he will call you at all times a day

Oh my dear Aquarius:

The eccentric, the weirdo, the cold, detached and unemotional Aquarius. Other signs are weak and feeble. Who are you? You are a rebel, a passionate thinker, and independent individual who stands their ground. A person who usually has their shit together. Others, rely on you too remain intact and keep your composure. You fail to understand that you are the Rebel Leader, a king/queen in your own right. You hold your position and lead others to a revolution against the king. Your forward thinking and genius mind is what others admire about you. But they admire most, your ability to not being easily persuaded and the ability to ‘see’ beyond the common eye. 

You’re unafraid of going against the current that pulls you along with the sheep. You embody what others wish to be but are too afraid to become. You don’t confide in anyone but yourself and trust in your ability, or at least pretend, to overcome an obstacle. You have a giant heart that many don’t know exists and that you hide well for the betterment of man kind. You have such control over your emotional and physical impulses that you bewilder people, left and right, day and night. 

So why do people depend on you emotionally? They rely on you to be their backbone. It’s what you were born to do. To help humanity in anyway, shape or form. This is your sacrifice. To guide and be their reason when theirs fail. You have this ability to be unbias about your advice, that while many people might not agree or wish to hear, they appreciate and admire. 

But why aren’t you able to? Why do people not accept your emotional state? When an Aquarius loses control of their emotions, it’s equivalent to a leader who loses control. A village who so admired and envisioned their leader, strong, heroic, unmoved and unswayed...all of a sudden, breaks. A leader who had every contingency plan in place, who had great control over their emotions, suddenly doesn’t know what else to do. What do they do? They panic. They panic because these people relied on their leader to always represent a strong figure and always remain in control. If you lose hope, they lose hope. They do not know or understand how an individual who, in their minds, always had it together. 

They cannot empathize because they never learned to empathize towards you. They never thought that you as an Aquarius had such emotional depth, or feelings at all. It seems like you took wind of them. Flabbergasted, they re-act harshly and cruelly to your sensitive plight. Wondering whether your show of water works was even genuine. 

But this is your cause. And while many will fail to empathize or understand you emotionally, you were blessed with many other gifts. And one of them, was your insurmountable amount of love you have to give.

कुम्भ राशि पुरुष (Aquarius Man) एक उदार और स्वतंत्र व्यक्ति है। यह आदमी दुनिया को सभी के लिए एक बेहतर जगह बनाना चाहते है।

जब आप पहली बार आदमी से मिलते हैं तो यह भव्य दृष्टिकोण थोड़ा अटपटा लग सकता है, लेकिन जब यह विचारों और नए विचारों की बात आती है, तब यह वास्तव में एक जीनियस है।

कुम्भ आविष्कारशील और मौलिक होता है, जो अद्भुत और रचनात्मक समाधानों का मंथन करता है, जिसका अर्थ है, दुनिया को बदलना या कम से कम उसके छोटे से हिस्से को।