What i don't understand is starting the blog in the first place. You KNOW how people are online. Or, at least if you didn't you do now. This isn't /neg at you. It's just saying that you aren't going to find a safe space when your door is wide open. You should just turn off anon, honestly.
MOD: No worries, this response by the way completely in a neutral tone. For why I start this in the first place is for the fact I was going through so much bullshit, to a point where none of my usual coping mechanisms did nothing. They weren't working at all.
I saw others on the platform having kin blogs. And that in a way inspired me to point time and effort into something I enjoyed.It allowed me to regulate my emotions properly as well as meet new people. It took me a lot of research and realisation to understand why I kinned this character. There were so many similarities between me and him.
I am aware there is never going to be exactly a safe space but the least I want is for those who find themselves going through something similar or worse to at least have somewhere where they won't be invalidated. Because that's how the people irl have in my life have been treating me. And I wouldn't wish the same upon anyone. I know how that feels like.
The thing is it's not even anon asks or anything. It's a particular person, in DMS to me.And the reason is because they really like that character. Which I completely understand but I am reminding them, which is why I made that message initially for them and for people in general just in case because I want believe that they might unaware how this comes across to me.
Again not being rude. It's just a general It's not a nag. It's just kinda of like "Hey! I know you like interacting with me but I'm not sure if you know how that can come across?"
