#aphro.reading

Hi, angel! Thank you! You're lovely! Your question is very general, so I'm going to pick up the message of my cards.

My cards talk about an unreliable person who can approach you with bad intentions or lie about why you have called their attention. However, I don't feel you too attracted and/or interested in this person either, since I see how said suitor walks away from you because they believe they have no opportunity to start a relationship with you. I feel it like a passing infatuation, something like a temporary crush.

This person stands out with a lot of fire energy with the Knight of Wands (especially the sign of Aries and Leo, a combination between these, even an Aries in the second decan or a Leo in the first decan), but too conflictive or always having problems with people. They can also be a very competitive person who enjoys winning arguments or other activities that give them some recognition.

Can I have an insight about my future spouse (general things like their personalities, characteristics, similarities and differences between me and them, etc) and what their green & red flags are?

I’m H, ♑️ sun

Thank you and have a nice day!

Hi, love! Hope the answers below are helpful for you.

The first thing that catches my attention is the masculine energy of your future spouse. It's likely the masculine energy is the most worked or relevant in them and they need to connect or understand their feminine energy. Remember that talking about energy isn't the same as talking about typical masculinity and femininity, but rather that your future spouse may be more impulsive, decisive, familiar with action, making decisions… and not so much with internalizing or connecting with their emotions.

A person with a striking personality, but who clings too much to their personal freedom and any kind of commitment can seem like a limitation or repression. Therefore, establishing a love relationship with this person can be somewhat complicated if both of you aren't on the same page when this happens. On an emotional and/or love level, I feel your future spouse may be extremely indecisive. For the most part, anything to do with emotions or understanding or verbalizing their emotions can be a problem. Despite being a person with a peculiar personality, I also see them as someone who is silent and who thinks or feels deeply, even if they don't verbalize it. The sign of Aquarius resonates a lot with me, so it can be related to your future spouse.

The idea of ​​a strong person, physically and emotionally, although I feel more that it's someone who enjoys starting things, but always suffers when they have to continue them. A lot of energy at the beginning that is diminished if they don't find something or someone that continuously arouses their interest.

If you don't know each other, both of you can spend some time away from each other, since The World refers to a person who can be distant from us or be physically far away.

Your future spouse may have experienced problems in the family home. A family with many problems that, in the end, affected them whether they wanted to or not. It can also refer to having lived in a family that went through constant changes that produced bad effects on them. For example, constantly changing your place of residence, changes in the economy that resented your future spouse… In any case, this family instability can transfer to yours when you both build your home. Even third parties or factors external to your relationship can be the cause of many of your discussions throughout your relationship, so a lot of communication and honesty is needed.

I don't feel your future spouse is likely to celebrate or enjoy their achievements. They can be inconvenient to share their joys and celebrate when something goes as they expected.

Finally, that emotional limitation that I was telling you about at the beginning with the Nine of Pentacles reversed is repeated again. Your spouse-to-be has deep issues with connecting and expressing their emotions, so it can be a cold relationship if you both fail to connect with each other and create a healthy space where you can open up little by little. It's very likely your future spouse feels terribly lonely and empty, but t hey don't understand those emotions and focuses on achieving financial or career-related achievements to fill the emotional void. They may tend to focus on work or the material side of life and unconsciously put aside their emotions, their partner or their family.

As important information, the number four is repeated several times and I feel that it is a message that I cannot ignore. Four tells us about the union of opposites and how they can live in harmony, although it also mentions the four elements and solidity. Perhaps, your future spouse is someone who is contrary to you and who can complement you. The appearance of number four and its representation through the square makes me think you can share many squares at an astrological level.

No sé si sería extraño preguntar pero es sobre una persona que no dejo de pensar, ¿será posible que a L le llegue justicia por lo que me hizo? Sé que es algo que no está en mis manos pero quiero saber qué está ocurriendo más allá de mi entendimiento.

No te preocupes si no es posible responder a la pregunta.

De nuevo, muchísimas gracias y espero tengas un buen día.

–AM♋

¡Hola, cariño! Vamos a ver qué me dicen mis niñas sobre tus dudas.

El Caballo de Espadas invertido y el Siete de Oros auguran lentitud. La primera carta anuncia retrasos y demoras en aquello que deseamos manifestar, además de pedirte cautela e ir con cuidado con quién y sobre qué hablas. Por ello, te recomiendo no hablar sobre el tema de L con nadie con quién no tengas la suficiente confianza, ya que podrían usarlo en tu contra.

Por otro lado, el Siete de Oros te pide paciencia y te recuerda que tú sabes que todo tiene sus ciclos y que, al final, se recogerá lo que se ha sembrado. Ambas cartas en la posición en la que han aparecido son lentas, así que debes tener paciencia e interiorizar que, a lo mejor, las consecuencias para L llegarán más a futuro.

Hello, angel! Thank you for following me! I'm really happy! Let's see what I can pick about your future husband!

Your future husband is presented as someone with a certain emotional imbalance. The Temperance reversed indicates this, since water appears in it and reminds us water is always linked to emotions. Therefore, it's likely that he's someone who is guided by emotions, impulses or his intuition. He isn't far-sighted or makes long-term plans, as he's a very impulsive man, who acts rashly and impulses can drive him. In addition, he's someone extremely impatient (it's repeated several times in your reading, so you'll have to arm yourself with patience).

He isn't very good at working in a group, but rather enjoys doing it alone. It's likely that he'll have problems at the beginning of your relationship and make plans without taking you into account or make decisions without remembering your opinion also matters. But I don't feel there is evil behind his attitude, but rather a habit he'll have a hard time getting rid of.

However, that impulsiveness makes him a very passionate man and adding those emotions that are so present, he can be a man in contact with his emotions, although I don't feel he has worked them correctly.

Money will be very important to him. Your future husband is presented as someone who attaches importance to money and material things, but he is a generous man. Probably because he has experienced a certain level of poverty or economic limitation in the past. When you meet, your future husband will have a good economic situation and he'll have no problem giving you everything you want on a material level. Apart from that economic problem, he has also experienced disappointments on an emotional level, whether they're love affairs or people in general who have failed him, and when you meet, your future husband will be in a healing process. He's a person who suffers internally and doesn't externalize his anger, disappointments or negative feelings in general.

I also don't feel he's a very social man or he enjoys going to parties or crowded places. He tends to isolate or withdraw from people. There is nothing wrong with it, there are people who need a few moments of solitude or interior recollection, as long as it doesn't become something permanent that doesn't allow him to open up to anyone. His social circles are very small and he may have few friends. Friends and family will be very important to him, and I feel you can get to know each other through mutual friends.

My cards again talk about how your future husband may have trouble socializing or opening up to new people. This will help him focus on work, since he may have a certain "addiction" to his work and forget about everything else, but I also see him having certain moments when he doesn't want to do anything and everything makes him lazy. Your future husband can go from a working machine to a lazy guy who doesn't want to do anything.

He has a hard time being logical, impulsiveness appears again, and it can be difficult for him to be self-critical. He's probably one of those people who see the big picture instead of focusing on the details. However, I feel your future husband is one of those people who has a head full of ideas that he never materializes and, in some way, it doesn't allow him to finish the projects he starts.

On some occasions he can believe in false illusions or idealizing people. Especially those he respects or admires.

Finally, your future husband may have problems with his own image, for example thinking he doesn't look attractive or feeling inferior, and being immature on some issues. But I feel that immaturity is closely related to his feeling of inferiority that haunts him. Also, I feel like your future husband may have been untrustworthy in the past or have trouble trusting others because of those disappointments I mentioned earlier.

If you want to know more or something more specific: just ask me again!

Muchas gracias por ofrecer lecturas, un beso grande 🫶🏽🏳️‍🌈🍋 (MR👩🏽)

¡Hola, cariño! Muchas gracias por tus palabras sobre el blog. ¡Vamos a ver en qué puedo ayudarte!

Las cartas me hablan de una vuelta al pasado. Probablemente sea esa reconexión con Alejandro S. al ser la antigua pareja de tu amiga. La relación con él puede acercarte de una forma u otra a tu pasado, ya sea recordándote vivencias con otras personas u otras relaciones amorosas (si has tenido experiencias en ese campo).

Hay que reorientar la relación con Alejandro S. y dejar esos hábitos o creencias que te limiten en tu vida amorosa. Las cartas te aconsejan probar cosas nuevas que te ayuden a crear nuevas metas relacionadas con tu vida amorosa. Hay que renovarse en ese aspecto de tu vida.

Por otro lado, evita esconder cosas a Alejandro S. No te pido que te abras desde el primer día y te expongas, sino que todo aquello que creas necesario compartir, así sea. Ambos debéis ser honestos, especialmente con todo lo que tenga relación con relaciones o personas que pueden interesaros, incluso esa amiga que mencionas puede tener un papel importante. Esto te lo comento porque aparecen ciertas cartas que hablan sobre terceras personas que pueden estar entre los dos.

Las dudas y la confesión estará presente durante un tiempo, pero no creo que se prolongue demasiado. Las cartas te ven percatándote de la realidad y siendo capaz de encontrar la verdad. Al final, tú misma sabrás qué camino escoger y esas preguntas de "qué pasaría si..." se resolverán pronto.

Se ve mucha comunicación entre los dos. Mucho teléfono, whatsapp, e-mail... Mucha comunicación a través de la tecnología. Incluso puede ser vía Instagram o cualquier otra app.

No puedo mentirte y decirte que no veo oportunidad de empezar algo, pero la lectura termina con un Diez de Bastos invertido que advierte dos escenarios: la aparición de una tercera persona que merma la relación o el problema residirá en que solo uno de la relación trabaja para que ésta sea exitosa y continúe en el tiempo. Por ello, aunque mis cartas hablen sobre cierta transformación en tu vida que puede aportarte una relación con Alejandro S., sí hay aspectos negativos que no puedo pasar por alto.

No obstante, Alejandro S. aparece como alguien honesto con quien se puede hablar, así que te recomiendo ser honesta y comunicarte libremente con él.

Me preguntas qué siente Alejandro S. por ti. Aparecen los bastos, así que veo mucha atracción física. Tu cuerpo le atrae y sí existe esas ganas de tocarse y esa pasión carnal. Además, Alejandro S. puede haberte visto como una posibilidad en algún momento, pero no siento que él piense que es una buena idea porque aparece el Nueve de Espadas invertido y, aunque sea algo más positivo estando invertido, no siento que sea algo bueno. No sé si ha tenido alguna ruptura reciente más allá de la de tu amiga, pero Alejandro S. puede estar sanando algo que no le permite proponerse tener una relación amorosa. Ahora mismo puede querer conocer gente nueva y, si él sabe de tu relación con su ex, eso le eche para atrás. Ahora mismo no le veo preparado y no te recomiendo forzar nada.

Hello, love! Let's see what message have my cards for you about ws.

Your cards: The Devil, The Strenght (reversed), The Sun (reversed), The Hermit, The Fool (reversed).

My cards don't see any feelings on the part of ws. I do feel a strong physical attraction from him towards you, but I don't feel like there are romantic feelings from him. Even depending on the type of relationship you have at the moment, it's possible that ws has some interest in being around you, but not a romantic interest.

Nor do I feel he is calm around you. He doesn't find the peace he needs around you. In addition, my cards talk about a certain "harshness" when it comes to talking or sharing ideas between you, since there is a disagreement of ideas or ways of thinking between the two, and that can be quite upsetting to ws. On the other hand, if ws is not having a cold and distant attitude towards you, my cards announce he may be taking that cold position shortly.

It's possible to solve these differences if you both speak and expose the doubts you have about the other, but I don't feel that ws wants to have a love relationship at the moment. Also, he can probably see you as a demanding person, at least in the love aspect, and he needs and wants to enjoy his solitude right now.

This is a bad time for both of us. Especially for you in love matters. It is time to focus on yourself and close a cycle in your love life. You should probably clear out archaic thoughts or structures to look at your love life with different eyes.

Muchas gracias,k tengas una buena noche!! M♎️

¡Hola, M! Vamos a ver qué me dicen mis cartas.

Mis cartas anuncian que pronto sabrás la verdad de toda esta situación. Muy pronto una situación o alguien aparecerá en tu vida y te dará las respuestas que tanto llevas buscando. Incluso esto puede estar ocurriéndole a RT, que tiene muchas cuestiones sobre vuestra relación actual y pronto conocerá o escuchará de alguien esas respuestas que necesitaba para saber qué camino tomar con respecto a ti.

Sí siento que RT sabe que tú eres alguien especial o que, al menos, debería haber retenido en su vida. Visualiza la relación como algo bueno que ha ocurrido en su vida y que hubiera retenido más tiempo.

Puede haber algún tipo de reconexión entre los dos, ya que La Estrella augura comunicación y El Juicio suele anunciar nuevas relaciones amorosas o reconexiones con personas del pasado. Así que no descarto que pueda haber algún reencuentro entre ambos. Sin embargo, aunque sí siento que RT guarda buen recuerdo de vuestra relación y de ti, no siento que haya una pronta reconciliación (hay algo oculto entre ambos que os mantiene separados), aunque sí puede ocurrir en el futuro.

Me preguntas sobre los sentimientos de RT. Ahora mismo resalta más vuestra conexión física que no emocional. Probablemente RT esté echándote de menos más en un plano físico y/o sexual, y no tanto en lo emocional. El contacto físico contigo es lo que más presente tiene, ya que El Emperador habla más sobre relaciones pasionales que no emocionales, aunque también puede echar de menos el sentirse querido porque contigo se sentía muy querido.

Ahora es un mal momento para él. Especialmente en el plano sentimental. Es probable que sintiera un alejamiento o vivierais muchos problemas o situaciones negativas antes de separaros, pero no creo que sea ahora mismo el mejor momento emocional para él. Es posible que necesite plantearse qué quiere y comprenda sus sentimientos por ti, ya que siento que puede estar teniendo algún tipo de crisis sobre ese tema. La ruptura ha provocado profundos cambios en su vida y todavía está entendiéndolos, así como descubriendo qué debe transformar en su vida aunque no quiera. Es como si estuviera pasando por un momento de cambios y transformaciones en su vida y, por ahora, es mejor que lo haga solo y tampoco prestará mucha atención al mundo emocional.

A parte de todo esto, RT realmente te ve como alguien divertido, sensual y bonita (incluso puede estar viéndote más bonita que antes), capaz de conseguir todo lo que te propongas. No obstante, no siento sentimientos profundos o un enamoramiento. No puedo asegurártelo. Lo que sí siento es mucho cariño y muchos buenos recuerdos, aunque el alejamiento es obvio y perdurará por un tiempo.

Hello, angel!

Your future partner is presented as someone very creative and connected to the arts, although expressive arts such as acting, music or dance may be special to them. Very charismatic. They are probably someone who is too enthusiastic and, instead of encouraging others, in most cases they scare them away because of that overflow of energy. It also makes me feel like those typical people who want to do fifty things at once without finishing anything, but not because they get bored but because they enjoy doing different things at the same time. They are very domineering people. With a very strong masculine energy. They like to dominate, to be in control of things, to be the leader.

Rigorous and meticulous in all or some aspects of their lives. They work hard to achieve their goals and they can do it thanks to that creativity I was talking about before, although sometimes that creativity leaves them. In general, very responsible and patient people, although they may have certain problems with everything being perfect and pay close attention to details (including anger problems or some people who verbally hurt when they are angry). And, even if they are patient, they can say things without empathy and hurt those who listen to them if they don't know them well enough and think they are insulting them. Their friends, those trusted people for your future partner, will be people similar to them or who share similar characteristics. Confidence is something very important to them, as well as security.

Your future partner values ​​family, so building a family and taking care of it will be important. It doesn't matter what kind of family we're talking about. In something, be it their career or a hobby, your future partner will be teachers and will enjoy helping and teaching others. In addition, they are very good counselors, although I do not feel that they are too connected to their emotional side.

The images of my cards are repeated, so I transmit to you the physique that appears repeatedly during your reading: your future partner has medium-lenght hair. If they don't have medium-lenght hair, they will be people with abundant hair. They are beautiful, at least their face looks beautiful (if it's a man), and I don't feel that their skin is too white, but rather brown, as if they are sunbathing.

I don't feel you'll live in a completely happy relationship, but rather I believe you can live a karmic relationship in which you'll learn something together with your future partner. My cards see a very happy beginning of a relationship, full of good experiences, but that will culminate in a betrayal represented with the Three of Swords. It doesn't have to be an infidelity, it can tell us about a betrayal or an emotional disappointment that will greatly reduce your relationship. From my cards that appear, I think this will be a karmic relationship.

I see you trying to save the relationship with the Ten of Swords reversed, but I also feel that all misfortunes will fall on the backs of one of you. Remember that relationships are for two and, in most cases, a single person isn't to blame for the problems in a relationship. Probably that disappointment or betrayal wakes you up from the expectations or the idea you had of your future partner and allows you to see it more real. In addition, the communication will be difficult between you, since you don't pay attention to what the couple says. What seems important to you will seem silly to your future partner, and vice versa.