“Makes you wonder what other slurs these radfems use ‘all they want’ against marginilised groups when they think no one will care,

huh?serceniekwamie is now urazsuka and antonialo is now wistfulsubsidiary “

I have never said such a thing, nor do I condone it, and I call it out when I see it (which appears to be more than you can say).

but guess what? lesbians who have slept with men due to compulsory heterosexuality/or were raped get told the exact same thing. it’s a misogyny problem, not a gay-people-being-mean problem.

and I didn’t go out of my way. I made one comment on one post. going out of my way would be like making thousands upon thousands of posts reminding people that A) there are other parts of the LGBT community that matter more than us, B) our issues are over and no one should care about us anymore C) we’re evil and oppressive for even wanting to marry in the first place and just as bad as the hets, and so on.

I made one comment.

how about you go yelling at the other people who are actually “going out of their way” to hurt people?

and I do know how attraction works. bi people have the ability to be attracted to both sexes. I don’t. it may not be absolutely ideal for you, but you still had the option of finding someone and being happy and not facing discrimination every single day from every single group for your very existence.

I will never have that or be free of that.

I’ve already answered you. you can ask that a thousand times and I will keep giving you the same answer. just because you don’t like the answer doesn’t mean asking again will get you a better one.

this is our win because it affects 100% of us. 100% of you have always had the option to marry and be happy in your relationships, but 0% of us could.

it is our win because we fought and bled and died for our rights, rights you’ve always had.

this is our win because when something good happened, all of you  immediately started with this “ok the LG are done what about the rest of us?” you really want to talk about not having a community? how would you feel if an entire generation of your people died and the few who survived had no access to their partner, their things (things you shared, such as the roof over your head) or the children you raised together, and weren’t even allowed to go to their funeral, and then when you finally get the rights you were denied that would have at least made such a tragic time in your history a little more bearable, everyone else who was supposed to have your back started attacking you, treating you like an oppressor (as they actually have p much since the beginning), decided all your rights were won and no one cares about you anymore

until you get angry, and stop being so nice. then it’s all your fault, you’re the problem, the one not playing nice. we’re the ones pushing everyone else out and taking the community away from them. us evil allomonogays.

sound familiar? sorry we’re done being shat on by you all and decide we want to be proud of ourselves and what we did for ourselves. sorry that doesn’t include you.

so, I’ll ask you, one more time. what does shitting on us, telling us our problems are over and no one should care about our safety anymore, accomplish, besides telling us that we’re still as hated as we’ve always been and the only community we have is with ourselves?

what’s the point? besides ya’ll enjoying being openly homophobic without getting called out on it?