#amazing side

Second of all, please note: I’m not a narcissist. I’m just an optimist who knows my amazing side pretty well, so, yeah.

1. My most amazing side is the fact that I’m such an ENFP.

A really extrovert; I can get people’s heart by words quickly. I can make you like me in first conversation, even do stupid things for me. I know a lot of people that if I do have some matter I can contact many.

So, don’t worry about “but nobody has that thing we’re looking for!” when you’re with me, I know who does. Really, no need to worry about having interaction with people you don’t know, you’re not brave enough to talk to, or you don’t think will pay attention to you. I can handle in most cases.

2. I love human beings.

I always believe that people are wondrous in their own ways. I love the insecure ones more, because it makes me feel obligated to explain how amazing they actually are, and I love explaining! I give words freely, you know, and often it can mean a lot to you indirectly.

Perk: world looks much more interesting.

3. I am a great interviewer, observer, and agent.

Give me the most mysterious person and the next hours I can tell who is his crush, what he thinks about his bad side, and even what makes him hate his sister. It’s hyperbole but it’s kind of true. If I’m in a very good mood, I can talk as if it’s just a small talk whereas I actually collect every information.

I can make people inform me everything, including their darkest secret. Not by letting them tell it whenever they want to, but by asking tricky question and trap them then. I don’t force them to tell, I make them willing to. It’s fun, and okay, too, because I’m a safe place to save secrets.

Isn’t it a pleasure to know everything about people when all they know about me is my name?

If you ask the advantage of having this ‘amazing’ side, then it is life lessons. I learnt a lot only by listening to them. You might not get it, but someday you will.

4. I know almost every freaking thing.

Very big curiousity got me into trying heaps of things, from learning Dutch, German, and Japanese at the same time until reading Think and Grow Rich (its English version ended up unread until… I feel ready 😭😅). But I only study deeply things I find interesting, thus, for the rest, I merely know the surface.

“The important thing is to not stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existence. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery each day.

—"Old Man’s Advice to Youth: ‘Never Lose a Holy Curiosity.’“ LIFE Magazine (2 May 1955) p. 64”

Besides my extroverted side, I am philosophical, substantively.

I’m a really good persona, aren’t I? Where else you can find a girl who can discuss almost every freaking thing: Hitler, Marie Curie, Kurt Cobain, universe, Alexander Bell, languages, math, politics, Betelgeuse, suicide motives, and still so forth?

Kidding. Xx. Of course there are people like me out there, but please if you want to talk, consider me as first choice!

5. I love math.

Not everyone likes numbers (exception: the numbers lie in money). It’s such a pity, therefore, that not everyone can see how miraculous math actually is.

Loving math leads me to good things: joining competitions (what a fun to meet new people, again!), being a teacher (at Physics because I’m not that good at explaining math), and having fun (solving hard math problems are my kind of happiness)!

6. I am ambitious.

This. Is. The. Best. Weapon. Of. Mine. Maybe I will explain a lot more in subsequent post, stay tuned!

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