11, 15, 21, 28
11) Theyāve won the lottery. Spend, or save?
SAVE. Ā Maybe donate some to charity.
15) What would they consider a waste of timeā other than school or work?
I guess something done only for StatusTM--he wouldnāt want to have to do things or go places just because āeveryone else is doing it.āĀ He doesnāt see things someone enjoys as being a waste of time, and heās way more likely than my other boys to actually WANT to do āunnecessaryā chores like making his bed--he likes having a routine, and heās happier when his living space is tidy.
He also wouldnāt be a fan of putting off responsibilities too long--he understands not looking forward to things, but heād rather get them done quickly and then be able to do what he wanted, rather than waste time trying to avoid them.
21) What would it take for them to break up with someone? What would be the last straw?Ā
In general, Alp doesnāt date people heās not already really good friends with, and if heās that close to them, there probably arenāt many deal-breaking differences of opinion.Ā That means a breakup would more likely be a mutual decision caused by slowly growing apart or being at different life stages (like when he and his high school girlfriend broke up, when being a grade apart meant he went to college while she was still in Chicago) rather than some sudden cause.Ā With that said, if his partner did something totally outside Alpās moral code, he wouldnāt be able to justify staying with them--he broke up with Lenny in BK because he couldnāt keep ignoring her work.Ā Heād have a hard time looking past cheating in particular, not so much because of jealousy, but because he values loyalty and honesty so highly that he couldnāt be with someone he didnāt trust anymore.Ā Regardless of the reason, breakups are always really hard on him.
28) Would they date a fixer-upper?
He thinks a good relationship (of any kind, not just romantic) changes both people for the better, but he wouldnāt go into a relationship expecting the other person to change, or date someone he thought needed to change.Ā He sees his own background as a big obstacle to a relationship, so his partnerās acceptance of that would be really important to him, and heād try to be just as accepting of them.Ā Heās not looking for perfection, heās just looking for love and trust and a willingness to work with each other. <3













