#aly tw

hi, trace. it took me a while to respond to your ask because I wasn’t completely sure if I wanted to have a conversation with you. i decided it was best to take a day off to think about it before getting back to you. however, when i checked back today, it had appeared you changed your blog url, icon and removed your name from your description. unsure if it was intentional but the timing is suspicious given that you unliked my post about aly and the admin of sux just had a conversation yesterday with sara about being on the receiving end of your toxicity. not only that, it’s incredibly unsettling sara has removed the initial tags she made when she reblogged my post. to view the tags click here, but if you click here, you can see she removed it. she claims she’s taking responsibility, but that proved otherwise and it was extremely performative. just like the admin, i have also been on the receiving end of your toxic behaviour while i was in sux and it’s incredibly baffling that you had the audacity to message me out of sympathy for what we ( minors at the time ) went through. honestly, i can’t even be surprised if you weren’t even aware of your own behaviours, but it’s clear neither of you have changed since you choose to hide in plain sight instead.

and no, i’m not going to give you the courtesy of replying to this privately since you probably thought i didn’t receive this message therefore you changed your url and icon. just because you and aly are no longer friends does not mean you weren’t just as bad as her. you and sara literally backed the admin into a corner, forcing her to give you permission to create stonagate which was an entire rip off of sux. i guess it didn’t even matter to you two, since you guys acted as if you ran sux anyway. you two made the rp so unenjoyable for so many people, but you two were too selfish to realize that. instead you both complained about how nothing goes your way well in fact everything always went your way. by not revealing yours or sara’s name, we gave you guys the chance to take accountability and apologize to the admin - assuming you two were still roleplaying or on tumblr. and we thought sara did, but of course, that was proven wrong earlier in the post. people need to know the truth and i’m not going to let you get away with this.

sara @sararpsthings is the adult the admin was referring to my post here. specifically this section:

from the admin of sux. “i was put in a similar position with an adult ( in sux ) when i was around 16 who wanted to smut with my character and i thought it’d be rude of me to say no so i went along with it and ended up dropping that character shortly after like…. even as the literal creator of the rp i still felt like ? beneath ? the adults sometimes bc they were so much older than me so it seemed like they had authority even tho they were in MY group if that makes sense”

trace was another adult in sux. they’re both around the same age as aly. and as you can tell, a lot of us do not have fond memories of either of them. we found this post reblogged two months ago saying how she misses sux and stonegate. of course she misses a time where she reigned supreme, of course she misses a time where she contributed to creating an unsafe environment for minors.

those attacking amanda and lori blaming them for this happening, they never told me to post, i didn’t talk to them prior. i was responding to an ask amanda has responded to regarding frostford and i replied to that ask saying one of the admins used to rp with minors. the ask is here. i don’t know lori, we don’t know each other personally and we’e never talked. even up until now, i still have not talked to her.

then i got an ask, link here, saying to stop making up lies for attention in reference to the reply i made on the anon message on amanda’s blog.

this all prompted aly to message amanda. you can view the screenshots here. aly did not smut with minors to my knowledge, but she did do romantic ships with minors and she’s lying about not shipping with a 14 year old. 

someone from that same rp that aly rped with all those minors wrote her own psa, link here. she was unsure if i was talking about her because she was also 14 at the time. she proceeds to defend aly and i respond saying it’s not about her and it’s about someone else and that aly has shipped with a 14 year old and jus because your experience with her wasn’t negative doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone else. and provided a link to the blog and the interactions aly had with the 14 year old, link here.