#alternativeways

I constantly tell myself that if I ever get my own place, I would decorate it like this and that. I don’t know why, but I just get so excited thinking about having my own little haven. I don’t like the way things are now, and I’m in this situation where I can’t do anything to change the situation I’m in. Sometimes, I’ll get really frustrated and turn into a really ugly person. I’ll start to make these snide remarks, or I’ll purposely make every action and movement in a loud manner. I just needed a way to lash out my anger. It’s not good, because it hurts the people around me, but I can’t help it. I need to lash out. 

Moral of this little story: if you’re angry or frustrated, find alternative way to vent out that anger. 

You could: 

- talk to a friend about your problems 

- type it out on your phone or pc (just write out your problems!) 

- write your thoughts out on paper 

- immerse yourself in a hobby (to distract yourself from your worries; but you will eventually have to talk to someone about it if it gets too serious)