alrnalexia replied to your post “crying now, i’m sorry but i’m still very upset over this??? (i don’t...”
if it helps, a lot of lesbians are attracted to fictional men, before and after realizing they're gay. what matters is that the men are FICTIONAL, if you aren't attracted to men irl you're a lesbian.
this does help, thank you....... or at least i think it will when i calm down some. i tried to like boys in high school but it didn’t work. i didn’t actually talk to them (bad social anxiety) but i would pick one and tell myself he’s cute and then observe from afar and realize, no he’s not. but i also never had crushes on girls (real ones, girl tv characters but..). except maybe my roommate in college.. but idk i didn’t think it was a crush at the time and i could be seeing things that weren’t really there, that i want to be there so i can feel like it all makes sense. i just don’t know......