Have you ever felt very comfortable with someone you just met. It's as if you have known this person for so long, but that truth is you just knew him for few minutes.

These are certain feelings that i appreciate very much. Some people spend a lifetime trying to figure out something or someone. Some people give up half of their lives just to have the same feeling i had when i met him.

As a girl, i Am a fan of those girly love stuff blogs and articles. I remember that i always read about the spark, the chemistry. I never believed in those though. I never believed in being at ease and comfortable with someone in just a snap. What i knew before was it required hard work and alot of patience before getting to this stage of comfortability.

Was i lucky? Were the stars in my favor this time? Was it magic? So many questions, but i guess only time will answer,

Now im just glad, it's as if i had an instant friend, its as if i found him on the most perfect time.

I was just chatting awhile ago with my good  friend, Timmy. Thanks to social media, we still manage to get in touch once in awhile even if we are thousand miles apart since she migrated in Regina, Canada. Despite the time difference and the distance, it's always nice to catch up with a friend; like as if we were having coffee at our favorite coffee shop.

She was telling me about the guy she used to communicate with a lot back home, and how they started to communicate again recently. She was also telling me about how she feels like she's somehow special to him. The guy has different sets of priorities though. Being the eldest son and the bread winner for the family. She was then unsure.

So I then assured Timmy, "You are SPECIAL, in one way or another. You are SPECIAL". I told her that the fact that she understands the guy's priorities made her special. Not all can understand that. He may not be able to blurt it out in your usual conversations, but the fact that he spares time to have a quick chat to see how you're doing is a good sign. You know how precious time is for busy persons like us ;)

Well my dear friend, if you are reading this. May this be a gentle reminder to you of your worth and value.  May you be reminded that there are people around you who appreciates you and values your worth. What more can you ask for right? Isnt it the best feeling to be surrounded by this kind of people?

Sometimes we just need to say it to others, how special they are. so they don't forget that in their existence, there is someone right here, or even across the globe, who appreciates him/her for who their truly are.  My advice, continue shining. Be the best version of yourself. You'll be surprised how people come to you and appreciate you  and your spark.

xoxo,