#aieu

1. First Flower; What makes you happy about the relationship; King of Wands [Reversed]

Fear of risks

Safety

2. Second Flower; The most important feeling you have for your loved one; Queen of Swords

Perceptive

Efficient

No-nonsense

Doesn't need to rely on loved one

Overly Critical

Intolerant

3. Third Flower; What worries you about the relationship; 0 The Fool [Reversed]

Stuck

Not able to go anywhere

No travel being made

4. The Ribbon; What binds you together; VII The Chariot [Reversed]

No sense of direction

"What's the use?" attitude

5. The Stem; What you're holding onto; Queen of Pentacles

Financial Stability

6. Advice; Eight of Swords

Trapped by your own fear

How I'm seeing this situation is as follows:

You're with this person because it's "safe." Perhaps you've been with them for a long time and you feel like there's no reason to leave. But, you, yourself, have become independent of them, mentally. You've found out who you are but maybe you're not wanting to leave yet. But, you're worried that when you're ready to leave, you won't be able to. It seems that you're only staying for the financial stability you have with this person. The advice here is to unblindfold yourself, escape the swords, and move on.

If any of this is wrong, correct me, please. I don't want to give you ill advice.