#ahduck

Now I am worried

That you are confusing me

Before you abuse me.

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When is the last time you did something nice for yourself? When is the last time you did your own landscaping and eyebrows? When is the last time you rubbed essential oils on your freshly bathed skin? When is the last time you journaled your darkest thoughts and confessed your insecurities? When is the last time you admired how beautiful you are naked?

Self-care is important and something we must stop and do. We run around worried about everyone else, but we often tend to neglect ourselves. Find 5 minutes to just be good to yourself.

Always remember that we cannot change the hearts of man. We can pray but we cannot change their heart. Sometimes we get beside ourselves and think that we can change who people are by being our best selves. Well here is three things you can do to ensure you aren’t playing God.

1. Pray- Give everything to God. At the end of the day He is the one who has the final say. Surrender BOTH the situation and the person to God and let Him do the rest.

2. Self Reflect- Take a step back and look at how you are behaving. Are you being controlling and pushy? Are you trying to change this person for you? Are you loving them unconditionally flaws and all? Do you love and like yourself? Sometimes our actions towards others is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.