Iâm a feminist, not a saint!
Many people have criticised Lena Dunham for not having cultural diversity on the cast for her show Girls. Dunham is a feminist and has been slammed as a âhypocriteâ as she does not show women from other ethnicities on her show. Although I agree it would be great for her to show and include the struggles of black and Asian women on her show and them finding themselves in the adult world, but her show is semi-autobiographical. She is showing the struggles of what she knows, and Dunham stated in an interview that she was going to expand and try and tackle this issue as she did not want to isolate any voices or people which is great as she is not dismissing further improvements on changing popular culture on television.
My main issue is that people expect feminists who are on a platform, to include everyone and think of everything. Every feminist is individual and has a different agenda due to what they have been through. Together like a team of feminists, with different hopes and dreams to be equal to men, we are all trying to work together to eradicate sexism. Caitlin Moran makes the statement that âFeminism is a patchwork quilt, itâs a communal effortâ and that we âall need to take a little square and contribute a small bit in making things better for womenâ. We all need to contribute, and that little bit of sharing leads to further change and becomes a positive domino effect of helping to change this sexist world.
Also when I say I do not like a woman that I know, who can be in my class or a mutual friend; I have been accused before that this contradicts my belief in feminism. NO. When I do not like a woman for whatever the reason is, it is not due to her gender, the same as if I do not like a male that I have been acquainted with. Just because I do not like him, people would not go around and say that I am a man hater. Just because I am a feminist, does not mean I will love and get along with every single woman I have come across, that is absurd. Iâm a feminist, not Jesus.
And for my final frustration: when people say âI donât like the word feministâ. Susan Sarandon stated she doesnât label herself as a feminist anymore as she thinks the label is too stigmatised to be taken seriously. That it has negative connotations suggests âa load of strident bitchesâ. However, the word âfeministâ has a history. It comes from our foremothers who fought for our rights, the very fact that women reject feminism today when they have an education, have the prospect of going to uni and end up going, and feel autonomous within themselves is due to feminism and you my friend, are living a feminist lifestyle. If you are obsessed with the label of âfeminismâ and think itâs outdated, you are focussing on the wrong thing. Focus on the meaning of feminism, which the Oxford dictionary states is âThe advocacy of womenâs right on the ground of the equality of the sexesâ. Where do you find that the definition of feminism is the stereotype of âangry man-hatersâ or âangry lesbiansâ? And if you think feminism is violent, or intense etc., think about how many women there are in the world and how many different versions of feminism there must be. Caitlin Moran emphasises that feminism can be fun, cool and trendy. You can find the type of feminism that suits you, as we all have a different fight as women, and are fighting for different rights/freedoms due to our experiences.













