#aekalips

I often feel like lesbians aren't "my people". In the way that I can't meet another lesbian and directly know that I'm safe. The majority of us are terf, discriminating, gay but not queer, dehumanizes mascs and butches, liberal, don't give a shit about intersectionality, or even approaching from the right wing ideology. I have never met a lesbian in real life who made me feel safe, other than my two neighbors, a 40yo certainly butchfemme couple who are anti-racist, neurodivergent, actively advocating for queer people and have evolved in queer circles.

Do we fw loud femmes? Do we fw chaotic femmes ?Femmes who don’t dress “cute,” who don’t look sweet when you first meet them ? Femmes with weird interests, perverted but traumatized femmes ? Femmes who dress like a slut one day and like a little boy the other ? Muscular femmes ? “I dress and do my makeup to scare men” type of femmes ? Do we fw femmes in combat sports, in male-dominated fields ? Do we fw provider femmes, protective ones ? Do we fw sweet but stubborn femmes ? Hyperactive ones ? Hyper-expressive ones ?

Already spammed this shit everywhere but Tumblr you need to see this too.