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How many people really take unsolicited advice?
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How many people really take unsolicited advice?
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keep in mind that most often they donât require that you agree with themâjust that you let them know that, despite its not quite fitting your circumstances, what theyâre saying makes good sense to you.
Namely, that it might be fairly easy to exploit the advice-giverâs hidden agenda to âdominateâ you, or assume superiority over you. That is, if you specifically ask them for advice, help, or guidance on something, they may be happy to actually âtake onâ the background research necessary for you to make the most informed decision. Or if you ask them to recommend how best to complete a task, they might even offer to do it for you. For that would enable them to demonstrateâboth to you and themselvesâtheir admiral ability to handle the job.
the advice-giver is granted a position of higher authority and, in this privileged role of âconsultant,â experiences substantial ego gratification. As I mentioned earlier, the driving, largely unconscious impetus behind the advice-giverâs at times problematic habit is for them to assuage deep, never-resolved feelings of gnawing self-doubt. So in any given situation, the challenge is to find healthy ways of reassuring them of their essential competence ... but without actually taking advantage of themâor feeling that theyâre somehow taking advantage of you.
If you donât particularly like their advice (and havenât requested it anyway), you may still need to respond to them with considerable care. Below the surface, theyâre much less self-confident than you might imagine, and could easily become upset or offended if they feel you havenât taken them seriously (as perhaps their parents didnât when they were growing up
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