#admin inbox.

Yeah. Because adults shipping with minors is weird. It's the only actual condition this blog has, because IRL that shit is illegal and I would rather not perpetuate it in a fandom setting. And I even give some leeway by stating that the character has to be an adult at least by their last chronological appearance, since I know some age throughout their series. There is no other kind of selfship I am particularly against, even ones with darker content, because I am well aware that it is a very common coping mechanism that is recommended by mental health professionals to deal with trauma. Even if certain things aren't my personal cup of tea, pedophilic "ships" are the only thing I will not allow here.

And I must correct you, there is no "we" here. I am a singular person running this blog, and it is ultimately up to me to decide who is allowed to be here and who is not. The fact you say that tells me you don't know jack shit about this blog.

This is the only time I'm going to address this shit. If you try to respond, anon, you will be ignored. Go outside, touch some grass, and reflect on why you feel the need to act like a cowardly toddler who can't even show their blog for their attempt at "critique". I'm going to guess you have one of the ships I don't allow here, given your message, so you are not welcome here.

Good day.

Always! Selfshipping is for every kind of bond, and familial & platonics are just as important as the romantic ones! >w<

I suppose that depends on the individual. Most tend to just say they've "retired" a f/o or just simply stopped shipping with them, but I suppose you could say that! I wouldn't know personally tho, given divorce implies marriage and none of my ships involve that (nor will they).

From my understanding, selfship and yume aren't really any different, but not all ocxcanon is a selfship! If anyone else wants to chime in though, feel free~

Awwww, thank you! That's very sweet of you to say, and I'm really glad the posts are helpful to you! ^_^

As for advice, hmmmm... Well, usually having info on what you're okay with can help give someone a quick rundown of whether or not they'd want to follow you! Most people seem to prefer carrd, but I've seen strawpage pop up as an option too (and I myself prefer rentry) - lotsa people use these to list a BYF/Rules as well as a list of their f/o's. A lot of people are "nonsharing", meaning they don't interact with people who ship with the character they do. You can put these things in a pinned post, which can be set by the little three dots in the corner of any post.

Otherwise? I'd say just interact with people! Like their posts, ask about their f/o's, anything you would normally. Good luck!!

I guess that's kinda cool though because it means he's all for me :D but again I really enjoy your blog and I look forward to more posts!

It's a fun time! I have a couple who are like that, where at most I see OCs shipped with them. Granted, I've already explained why that sort of thing doesn't bother me (linky) but ujyhtgrfe

Hopefully I'll get back to it soon!! I wasn't expecting the blog to blow up like this, so between that and IRL stuff punching me in the face it's been hard. But I'm glad you like the blog!!

Tomorrow is a big day for us...>w< It is our 4 month anniversary! I am so excited! I am so in love! My beloved f/o means so much to me, he is like sunshine in my life! I can't wait to make plans for tomorrow! Maybe a date by the beach, a lovely meal...I AM SO EXCITED!!!

Have a wonderful day~

So sorry I'm late to answering this--

AAA HAPPY ANNIVERSARY~ I hope it was all the better than you expected, because you and your f/o deserve it~ >w<

Always!! As long as it's not on the list, you're free to send whatever you like!! I love hearing about people's f/o's~