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Whyyyyyy are there no safe spaces for Adaptive Systems or Traumatized Systems in general without some form of Endo hate?
We’re somewhat blocked out of nearly every space we’ve seen because we don’t have or are mostly sure we’re unfit for the criteria of an official disorder, even if we may have emotional amnesia, or count as endogenic by association ( not fully 100% purely Traumagenic, fall under Adaptive and some very similar labels, including two of the big three being that and Neurotraumagenic, but also Amitigenic ). Even if we aren’t the type they’re thinking of most of the time, it makes us feel sick with empathy
If we could just have one other safe place with a focus on trauma and recovery that doesn’t hate on anyone, that would be amazing. Specifically Discord if we’re talking best ideal. We’ve looked for server after server and nothing. Not even something just for just any Adaptive Systems
We’re in one place we won’t name to call out, but they allow PluralKit only to medically recognized disordered systems ( DID, OSDD1, USD/USDD ), and it feels super scummy. We’re still glad to have a place at all, but we’re stuck without an accessibility tool we use nearly anywhere else. Maybe we should be grateful we have a place, but all we can think about right now is that even if we are somewhat welcomed, we’re also being unintentionally othered and are scared to speak up about it in fear of being kicked out of the only place we feel safer venting save for here
