#actualequality

this is a rant I posted on my Facebook because people don't understand feminism feminist rant: (small with major points) don't call yourself a feminist if you don't also support men because feminism is equal rights for men AND women. any woman who says they're a feminist and wants to take rights away from men or wants to lower their wages and etc. is NOT a feminist. It's Misandry. Feminism is E Q U A L rights. Reality is that women have it harder than men and have since forever but hating men and trying to oppress them is not the answer. Men face a lot of the same problems women do but it's dealt with and/or perceived differently. "she sexually harassed me." -"oh please! bet it was hot! or -"bet you liked it!" don't invalidate men in your fight to prove you deserve to be treated equally. because being shitty towards men only makes you as shitty as the men trying to oppress you. not all men are terrible, there are men fighting with you, for you. dont be a dick to all of them because more than a few are crappy.

What I will never get about feminism is why you people choose to act as if men should be inferior instead of advocating for equal rights like you should. Men and women can coexist and no there is no patriarchy it's just that some men are rude and you decide to stereotype against all men just cause you feel like it. You also say that women can't be rapists when in fact rape isn't based on oppression cause as any dictionary will tell you: rape is forcing someone to have sex with you whether you're a girl or a guy (or identify as something else since this is tumblr and any opinion other than yours can "trigger" you). You would get a whole lot more of respect if you could just negotiate and treat everyone equally instead of having dreams of a world ruled by women. I would say more but as of right now feminists haven't given me anything to argue about (even though there is bound to be stuff that any reasonable person would be against in your group). I would like equality but what I wouldn't like is women taking over the world. Thank you for taking the time to read this.